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Buyer wants 6k off after survey.
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I feel that the threat/blackmail to send the survey to other buyers is a big red flag.
(Did you say they were divorced? I wonder why....)
I'd expect them to make additional threats throughout the sale process and perhaps not be particularly truthful which they've already done by lying about what the survey said.
That's my "level 1 survey" results about your buyer!6 -
How long was the house on market before the current offer was accepted?0
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OP, the survey can be passed on, or more commonly sold on, to another buyer. My daughter bought a survey from the previous buyer who pulled out, on a house she was looking at. She didn't proceed because the survey identified something like £25k worth of work on a house that was already near top price.
From what you've said, you have a house worth about £185k, needs £12k of work, and they have offered £170k. Doesn't seem any need to reduce further imo. Just tell them you accepted the offer as you were aware of the work needing doing and that's the lowest you can go - unless you are desperate to sell of course. If you remarketed at £175k or even £180k do you think you'd get more buyers?0 -
So far your buyer seems to be munipulative,.using divorce, other tactics to try and squeeze you and your price.
We wouldn't put up with that and would bin them off.
It's easy of course to say not being in your situation but we have had people try and mess us about before and saying no often works and focuses them on what they really want and makes sure they are a committed buyer.1 -
RogerPensionGuy said:How long was the house on market before the current offer was accepted?1
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Fdbjg123 said:Also, the buyer has said that (if we don’t reduce and re market) they have been told by their solicitor to give the survey to future buyers. Is this a thing?
But, that's nonsense. The only party who would have their contact details and that of any new buyer is the estate agent who only works for you. If this sale falls through say to the estate agent that you don't want them to facilitate any survey reports between any partiesGather ye rosebuds while ye may2 -
mark_cycling00 said:I feel that the threat/blackmail to send the survey to other buyers is a big red flag.
(Did you say they were divorced? I wonder why....)
I'd expect them to make additional threats throughout the sale process and perhaps not be particularly truthful which they've already done by lying about what the survey said.
That's my "level 1 survey" results about your buyer!1 -
Thanks for all the responses/advice. I’ve had the survey sent over and a lot of it is utter rubbish on the surveyor’s behalf. I’ve basically responded in bullet points explaining why a lot of it is false and why we won’t reduce further based on the bits that are true (roof sag etc). So will have to see if she pulls out or not.8
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retiredbanker1 said:On the other hand if I could see a problem with the roof - even without a survey (will it pass a drive pass bank surveyor to make an offer?) then personally I would not touch it with a bargepole.
That's just me.1 -
RHemmings said:I did a google, and it appears that a sagging roof may or may not be a symptom of serious problems with the roof. Best to confirm exactly what the situation is.1
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