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Buying house - agent aggressive and not telling truth, what can we do?

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TLDR- we’re buying a house and the agent is being quite aggressive and I don’t think wholly truthful. What can we do?

The full story - We’re buying a chain free Victorian property from an older lady who is moving out for health reasons.

Survey and searches have identified quite a lot of issues incl damp, new roof, rewiring needs and so forth but we’re quite committed to the property. Offer accepted very end of June and we made clear from outset that we were in rental and needed 6 weeks notice to exit it. 

Throughout the process the agent has been quite dismissive of any concerns and just tried to push sale through, querying the need for any further survey ie of electrics etc. We asked for some money off (£10k) as we’ve uncovered about £25k of work. This which was rejected - altho we’ve sucked it up as the accepted offer was fair.

Suddenly in the last two weeks the agent has gone absolutely beserk beyond previous pushy emails and started spamming us and our lawyers with emails calls and voicemails to push the sale through. On Monday we got an email saying they were aiming for exchange and completion on 30 September and the vendor has moved into rental property in expectation - bear in mind we’ve not seen a contract yet and legals are still ongoing and we had absolutely no knowledge of any targeted date for exchange let alone completion. 

My partner spoke to our agent about the matter, explained the position and then the agent sent an email to the lawyer which absolutely misrepresented everything my partner said. We emailed to challenge this. 

We then spoke to our lawyers who pushed back on our behalf and then we recieved some of the most aggressive emails ever from the agent and regional sales manager which involved the partner of the law firm getting involved in the chain.

I honestly feel we cannot continue with this agent and the transaction is about to break down. I also worry for the vendor - I think they are agressivrly pushing an older lady to get the sale asap, if she’s truly moved to rental property I have no idea why as we’re weeks from exchange or completion.

Is there any way we can ask for the vendor to re market with a new agent or formally complain to a trades body?
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  • Emmia
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    edited 23 September 2023 at 9:32AM
    edmor said:
    TLDR- we’re buying a house and the agent is being quite aggressive and I don’t think wholly truthful. What can we do?

    The full story - We’re buying a chain free Victorian property from an older lady who is moving out for health reasons.

    Survey and searches have identified quite a lot of issues incl damp, new roof, rewiring needs and so forth but we’re quite committed to the property. Offer accepted very end of June and we made clear from outset that we were in rental and needed 6 weeks notice to exit it. 

    Throughout the process the agent has been quite dismissive of any concerns and just tried to push sale through, querying the need for any further survey ie of electrics etc. We asked for some money off (£10k) as we’ve uncovered about £25k of work. This which was rejected - altho we’ve sucked it up as the accepted offer was fair.

    Suddenly in the last two weeks the agent has gone absolutely beserk beyond previous pushy emails and started spamming us and our lawyers with emails calls and voicemails to push the sale through. On Monday we got an email saying they were aiming for exchange and completion on 30 September and the vendor has moved into rental property in expectation - bear in mind we’ve not seen a contract yet and legals are still ongoing and we had absolutely no knowledge of any targeted date for exchange let alone completion. 

    My partner spoke to our agent about the matter, explained the position and then the agent sent an email to the lawyer which absolutely misrepresented everything my partner said. We emailed to challenge this. 

    We then spoke to our lawyers who pushed back on our behalf and then we recieved some of the most aggressive emails ever from the agent and regional sales manager which involved the partner of the law firm getting involved in the chain.

    I honestly feel we cannot continue with this agent and the transaction is about to break down. I also worry for the vendor - I think they are agressivrly pushing an older lady to get the sale asap, if she’s truly moved to rental property I have no idea why as we’re weeks from exchange or completion.

    Is there any way we can ask for the vendor to re market with a new agent or formally complain to a trades body?
    As the agent "introduced you" to the property, the seller is on the hook for their fees even if they switched to another agent (who would also want the fees), and they may be tied into a contract preventing remarketing.
  • HappyHarry
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    edited 23 September 2023 at 10:18AM
    Is it possible that the vendor is in very poor health, and the family and / or agent are concerned that if the house does not sell soon then it might be tied up in probate for a long time?

    whatever the reason, they can’t force you to move faster and would have to look for another buyer that could complete almost immediately to get get further forward.
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  • The agent might wonder why you asked for 10K off from an old lady, on an old delapidated house which needs loads of work, when you got it for a reasonable price. Did you honestly think everything would be up to scratch? 

    With the surveys I think by saying 'don't bother getting any more' the agent is hinting that yes, the property needs a lot of work, but also it was priced accordingly so is not going to be reduced to fund improvements you want to do.

    The agent will say just about anything to try and push the sale through, they get paid by the seller and represent the seller's interests primarily. If you can't work with them you might be better looking elsewhere.


    Mr Generous - Landlord for more than 10 years. Generous? - Possibly but sarcastic more likely.
  • Herzlos
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    "Calm down or we'll withdraw".

    At this stage you should be dealing with the sellers solicitor and not an estate agent anyway.


    It sounds like they are getting desperate for the commission, and you shouldn't be pressured into moving earlier than agreed especially if there are outstanding issues.
  • The agent might wonder why you asked for 10K off from an old lady, on an old delapidated house which needs loads of work, when you got it for a reasonable price. Did you honestly think everything would be up to scratch? 

    With the surveys I think by saying 'don't bother getting any more' the agent is hinting that yes, the property needs a lot of work, but also it was priced accordingly so is not going to be reduced to fund improvements you want to do.

    The agent will say just about anything to try and push the sale through, they get paid by the seller and represent the seller's interests primarily. If you can't work with them you might be better looking elsewhere.


    I really appreciate all the comments as it’s a useful perspective. 

    I would just say that the property blurb stated ‘meticulously maintained’ (!) and the house is north of £800k in London. We had thought work was primarily cosmetic, it’s priced fairly for the area but I equally wouldn’t say we under offered.  
  • user1977
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    What would be the point of another agent getting involved when there is already a buyer?
  • RHemmings
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    user1977 said:
    What would be the point of another agent getting involved when there is already a buyer?
    Perhaps the second agent would be competent. 
  • BobT36
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    it was priced accordingly so is not going to be reduced to fund improvements you want to do.
    According to whom? The agent and seller can think what they want, it's the buyer's opinion that matters regarding their own money and what willing to offer. Of course the other side can reject that.

    As to an agent getting shirty, just ignore it and firmly state your position and carry on as usual. It's YOUR money and YOUR future in that house that could be negatively impacted if you overlook something. If you're not willing to move quicker, then don't. Certainly don't agree to any "targets" set by them. 

    I recently had an agent that wouldn't stop calling to try and get me to set up arrangements with their "finance adviser" and try and get me to commit to signing up to their solicitors and surveyors ("As it's good to have everything ready"), and this was before I'd even VIEWED! 
    I'd also told them I'd got solicitor and surveyor companies of my own picked out ready, and there was no need to actually engage with any of those before making an offer, plus the mortgage company (that I have a mortgage in principle with)  told me VERY strongly to not engage any solicitors & surveyors until they give the go-ahead, and to start with the application to them, first. 

    Of course the agent just kept stating their line and calling. Obvious that they wanted their commission of course despite how silly it was before even viewed, I just had to tell them VERY explicitly I will NOT be strong-armed by their attempted marketing, and I will be doing x, y, z and that only, and not to mention it to me again. They did pipe down after that. 

    You're in control of your own money, life and finances. Buying a house is likely the most expensive purchase you will ever make. It's not for someone else to say what you do with that or that you should spend less time scrutinising on a house than you would when buying something cheap on Amazon. 
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