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Reporting someone to the police for misappropriation of funds of an estate?

Ibits4321
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Does anyone have experience of this? Quick overview: person died intestate and one of his children became executor and had the letter of administration granted two years ago. They have not distributed the estate to their siblings and when the siblings have enquired when they will receive their money the executor has gone no-contact with their siblings and blocked them from every platform possible. Before going no- contact they were very visibly spending money in a way that they didn't used to before.
This is theft/fraud, surely? A police officer friend has said the police wouldn't be interested. Is this true? Surely not? I googled and saw some people have gone to prison for abusing their position as executor so it must be possible to report to police. My question is if it's not a 101 job who do you report it to?
This is theft/fraud, surely? A police officer friend has said the police wouldn't be interested. Is this true? Surely not? I googled and saw some people have gone to prison for abusing their position as executor so it must be possible to report to police. My question is if it's not a 101 job who do you report it to?
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Not that exact situation but when my Dad had a stroke he was robbed by family member. Police were not interested.
Mr Generous - Landlord for more than 10 years. Generous? - Possibly but sarcastic more likely.0 -
The police will tell you that this is a civil matter, and at this stage it is. The other siblings need to speak to a solicitor pronto. Getting threatened with legal action may be enough to get the administrator to finally cough, but if not they need to follow through with that action.
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Keep_pedalling said:The police will tell you that this is a civil matter, and at this stage it is. The other siblings need to speak to a solicitor pronto. Getting threatened with legal action may be enough to get the administrator to finally cough, but if not they need to follow through with that action.0
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Ibits4321 said:Keep_pedalling said:The police will tell you that this is a civil matter, and at this stage it is. The other siblings need to speak to a solicitor pronto. Getting threatened with legal action may be enough to get the administrator to finally cough, but if not they need to follow through with that action.1
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Ibits4321 said:Keep_pedalling said:The police will tell you that this is a civil matter, and at this stage it is. The other siblings need to speak to a solicitor pronto. Getting threatened with legal action may be enough to get the administrator to finally cough, but if not they need to follow through with that action.
The siblings made two major errors. The first was trusting the administrator to handle the estate alone and not already having taken action at least a year ago.0 -
Ibits4321 said:Does anyone have experience of this? Quick overview: person died intestate and one of his children became executor and had the letter of administration granted two years ago. They have not distributed the estate to their siblings and when the siblings have enquired when they will receive their money the executor has gone no-contact with their siblings and blocked them from every platform possible. Before going no- contact they were very visibly spending money in a way that they didn't used to before.
This is theft/fraud, surely? A police officer friend has said the police wouldn't be interested. Is this true? Surely not? I googled and saw some people have gone to prison for abusing their position as executor so it must be possible to report to police. My question is if it's not a 101 job who do you report it to?
You need to look carefully at the facts where someone was jailed for abusing their position as executor, because it doesn't mean there has been direct police involvement eg https://www.boltburdon.co.uk/blogs/choose-executors-carefully-court-jails-executor-abused-position-power/#:~:text=This%20week%20an%20executor%20was,executor%20of%20Anita%20Border%27s%20estate.
Ibits4321 said:Keep_pedalling said:The police will tell you that this is a civil matter, and at this stage it is. The other siblings need to speak to a solicitor pronto. Getting threatened with legal action may be enough to get the administrator to finally cough, but if not they need to follow through with that action.
Googling on your question might have been both quicker and easier, if you're only after simple facts rather than opinions!0 -
user1977 said:Ibits4321 said:Mr.Generous said:Not that exact situation but when my Dad had a stroke he was robbed by family member. Police were not interested.
With regard to your view on estate maladministration/misappropriation, do you think theft or fraud should not be investigated and prosecuted by the police and CPS?
Surely estate maladministration/misappropriation is no different? Whether it is investigated is another matter due to the limited police resources we have in this country. But I'm sure if a politician had their share of an estate misappropriated the police would soon get involved.
Your attitude to tell people to spend thousands of pounds to get what is rightfully yours, is only feeding the problem as executors call the bluff that the injured parties can't afford to challenge them.1 -
uknick said:user1977 said:Ibits4321 said:Mr.Generous said:Not that exact situation but when my Dad had a stroke he was robbed by family member. Police were not interested.
With regard to your view on estate maladministration/misappropriation, do you think theft or fraud should not be investigated and prosecuted by the police and CPS?
Surely estate maladministration/misappropriation is no different? Whether it is investigated is another matter due to the limited police resources we have in this country. But I'm sure if a politician had their share of an estate misappropriated the police would soon get involved.
Your attitude to tell people to spend thousands of pounds to get what is rightfully yours, is only feeding the problem as executors call the bluff that the injured parties can't afford to challenge them.
And even they prosecute, that doesn't mean they're going to do anything about retrieving the money. Plus they may take many months/years to even decide what to do.
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user1977 said:uknick said:user1977 said:Ibits4321 said:Mr.Generous said:Not that exact situation but when my Dad had a stroke he was robbed by family member. Police were not interested.
With regard to your view on estate maladministration/misappropriation, do you think theft or fraud should not be investigated and prosecuted by the police and CPS?
Surely estate maladministration/misappropriation is no different? Whether it is investigated is another matter due to the limited police resources we have in this country. But I'm sure if a politician had their share of an estate misappropriated the police would soon get involved.
Your attitude to tell people to spend thousands of pounds to get what is rightfully yours, is only feeding the problem as executors call the bluff that the injured parties can't afford to challenge them.
And even they prosecute, that doesn't mean they're going to do anything about retrieving the money. Plus they may take many months/years to even decide what to do.
I, and my solicitor, have a different view in that the police are ignoring their responsibilities. With regard to time scales the Loveday case took 4 years to reach a conclusion in total for the civil and then criminal case to get a successful conviction.0 -
user1977 said:uknick said:user1977 said:Ibits4321 said:Mr.Generous said:Not that exact situation but when my Dad had a stroke he was robbed by family member. Police were not interested.
With regard to your view on estate maladministration/misappropriation, do you think theft or fraud should not be investigated and prosecuted by the police and CPS?
Surely estate maladministration/misappropriation is no different? Whether it is investigated is another matter due to the limited police resources we have in this country. But I'm sure if a politician had their share of an estate misappropriated the police would soon get involved.
Your attitude to tell people to spend thousands of pounds to get what is rightfully yours, is only feeding the problem as executors call the bluff that the injured parties can't afford to challenge them.
And even they prosecute, that doesn't mean they're going to do anything about retrieving the money. Plus they may take many months/years to even decide what to do.1
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