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Can I change the Executor on my Mum's will?
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Flugelhorn said:deputy_sj said:elsien said:As above.
Plus for your role as deputy you need to consider what your mother would have done when she had capacity, in considering her best interests.
When she had capacity, for whatever reason she chose the solicitors rather than family and friends.
Changing the executor doesn’t benefit her in anyway at all, only the beneficiaries, So again, even if it was possible, I don’t see how you would argue that something that won’t impact her would need to be changed in her best interests.
Approach the solicitor when the will needs to be dealt with and ask them to stand down.
Today, I firmly believe that my Mum would have the same opinion as my Dad & would prefer the majority of their (modest) estate to benefit either him or their 5 children instead of a significant % being paid to the high-street bank.
The banks will still want to see a copy of the will so the OP will still need to get the executor bank to make a renunciation.1 -
Keep_pedalling said:Flugelhorn said:deputy_sj said:elsien said:As above.
Plus for your role as deputy you need to consider what your mother would have done when she had capacity, in considering her best interests.
When she had capacity, for whatever reason she chose the solicitors rather than family and friends.
Changing the executor doesn’t benefit her in anyway at all, only the beneficiaries, So again, even if it was possible, I don’t see how you would argue that something that won’t impact her would need to be changed in her best interests.
Approach the solicitor when the will needs to be dealt with and ask them to stand down.
Today, I firmly believe that my Mum would have the same opinion as my Dad & would prefer the majority of their (modest) estate to benefit either him or their 5 children instead of a significant % being paid to the high-street bank.
The banks will still want to see a copy of the will so the OP will still need to get the executor bank to make a renunciation.0
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