We’d like to remind Forumites to please avoid political debate on the Forum.
This is to keep it a safe and useful space for MoneySaving discussions. Threads that are – or become – political in nature may be removed in line with the Forum’s rules. Thank you for your understanding.
PLEASE READ BEFORE POSTING: Hello Forumites! In order to help keep the Forum a useful, safe and friendly place for our users, discussions around non-MoneySaving matters are not permitted per the Forum rules. While we understand that mentioning house prices may sometimes be relevant to a user's specific MoneySaving situation, we ask that you please avoid veering into broad, general debates about the market, the economy and politics, as these can unfortunately lead to abusive or hateful behaviour. Threads that are found to have derailed into wider discussions may be removed. Users who repeatedly disregard this may have their Forum account banned. Please also avoid posting personally identifiable information, including links to your own online property listing which may reveal your address. Thank you for your understanding.
📨 Have you signed up to the Forum's new Email Digest yet? Get a selection of trending threads sent straight to your inbox daily, weekly or monthly!
New Build Estates with Playgrounds - Are they for Residents Only?
Comments
-
GixerKate said:diystarter7 said:GixerKate said:Thanks for taking the time to respond, a quick update for everyone. Whilst there isn't anything specific in the plans for the intention of the play area, the management company have said that while yes we are paying for everything and will continue to do so, we can't stop the general public from using the play area.
Tbh, we haven't got a problem with younger kids using it, its the older kids being anti-social. What we can do is police it ourselves and enforce the 'under 12 year olds' rule instead. As its a small community here we can usually call the kids by their names and we know how old they are.
Really is disappointing though. You'd think that as the play area is built on the private land, never to be adopted by the council and maintained solely through the residents, you'd think we would have some rights but no.
Thanks for the update
TBH, about you and friends "policing" the area. I'd seek advice about this from your local community police officers as there are potentially many dangers associated with stuff like this and not just from the louts but their guardians as often they too can take very serious offence no matter how polite you are
Therefore, seek advice from local officers and take it from there.
Good luck
That is brill news!! Good to see people step ahead in situations like this. I've worked with Joe public and one of our kids worked as a teacher's assistant before learning to become a teacher. The stories re some of the so-called parents that came into school who were not only unreasonable but dangerous bullies were awful. So be careful and dont make yourself a target as some of these troublemakers pick on one person.
Have you checked if you are allowed to put up signs like, "playground for resident and visitors aged up to xx age"?
Good luck
1 -
lika_86 said:GixerKate said:Tbh, we haven't got a problem with younger kids using it, its the older kids being anti-social. What we can do is police it ourselves and enforce the 'under 12 year olds' rule instead. As its a small community here we can usually call the kids by their names and we know how old they are.
Most will be harmlessly mooching around, but what if any of them were to be carrying a weapon?
When I was living in Croydon directly opposite a playground we used to speak to them and ask them to keep the noise down and clear up when they leave, most did. the ones that didn't got reported and dealt with by the police.0 -
Btw, not kidding, but consider self defence training and get away training I think its called, IE where someone gets hold of you and you make one or two moves to get away - carry a personal alrm as well,
I'm sure it wont be needed but just be open minded1 -
GixerKate said:bobster2 said:GixerKate said:
Tbh, we haven't got a problem with younger kids using it, its the older kids being anti-social. What we can do is police it ourselves and enforce the 'under 12 year olds' rule instead. As its a small community here we can usually call the kids by their names and we know how old they are.
In a council owned playground there may be byelaws - accompanied by some sanction or penalty when they are broken. But even then a member of the public can't walk up to another member of the public and enforce a byelaw themselves.
So on this privately owned landed - what would be the legal basis for one member the public (not the owner) demanding that another member of the public leave the land? I genuinely don't know!
It could potentially be trespass - if someone is on the land without the owner's permission. But what's the legal basis for someone who is not even the land owner (e.g. you) trying to remove someone from the land?
0 -
bobster2 said:GixerKate said:bobster2 said:GixerKate said:
Tbh, we haven't got a problem with younger kids using it, its the older kids being anti-social. What we can do is police it ourselves and enforce the 'under 12 year olds' rule instead. As its a small community here we can usually call the kids by their names and we know how old they are.
In a council owned playground there may be byelaws - accompanied by some sanction or penalty when they are broken. But even then a member of the public can't walk up to another member of the public and enforce a byelaw themselves.
So on this privately owned landed - what would be the legal basis for one member the public (not the owner) demanding that another member of the public leave the land? I genuinely don't know!
It could potentially be trespass - if someone is on the land without the owner's permission. But what's the legal basis for someone who is not even the land owner (e.g. you) trying to remove someone from the land?
0 -
GixerKate said:
LOL I'm afraid I wasn't one of the teenagers hanging around on street corners with cider no. Call me weird but as a teenager I used to spend time with friends and family.0 -
diystarter7 said:Btw, not kidding, but consider self defence training and get away training I think its called, IE where someone gets hold of you and you make one or two moves to get away - carry a personal alrm as well,
I'm sure it wont be needed but just be open mindedAnd what is with all the stereotyping as well? It’s disgusting to see. Welcome to 2023 everyone.0 -
I honestly don't think there's much that can be done about this. I admit it would be highly irritating and it's refreshing to see that the police are taking an interest and hopefully they can help sort it out. I think the residents confronting them is likely just providing them with "entertainment" and won't make the situation any better.The land is publicly accessible and no amount of "residents only" or "under 12's only" signs are going to make a difference. Aside from that trespass is not a criminal offence. If I setup a tent in your front garden the police can't arrest me for trespass. There might be some vaugue reason for arrest, such as criminal damage to your lawn or breach of the peace but it would be a bit of a stretch.
0 -
It might be worth talking to them as adults. Explain that any damage will impact other younger children. By letting them know you have no problem being there as long as they know it is for others to use. Make them feel they are responsible.They are either going to change their behaviour or carry on as normal so you have little to loose. Plus you could in a friendly manner tell them that they unfortunately become chief suspects if any damage is caused so its in their interest to be responsible?May you find your sister soon Helli.
Sleep well.0 -
Do you think the under 12 years mentioned in the planning is to do with the equipment used in the playground being suitable for that age group rather than an implicit bylaw.The good news for the OP is that the police are taking poor behaviour by teenagers seriously and I would suggest you follow down that path rather than organising vigilantes as some seem to be suggesting.0
Confirm your email address to Create Threads and Reply

Categories
- All Categories
- 352.1K Banking & Borrowing
- 253.5K Reduce Debt & Boost Income
- 454.2K Spending & Discounts
- 245.1K Work, Benefits & Business
- 600.7K Mortgages, Homes & Bills
- 177.4K Life & Family
- 258.9K Travel & Transport
- 1.5M Hobbies & Leisure
- 16.2K Discuss & Feedback
- 37.6K Read-Only Boards