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  • Sea_Shell
    Sea_Shell Posts: 10,030 Forumite
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    sim2335 said:

    Is someone liking you back based on pure luck?


    I know you can increase the chances by confidence where you act etc, but even the best looking guy or girl, and most down to earth and humble etc not everyone is attracted to them.


    Pretty much, yes.

    So the more social interaction you have with more people, the greater your chances of making that sort of connection.

    Then once they start to get to know you better and your "background" they may like you more....or go off you.


    By background, I mean, job, home, etc etc.

    Eg.  I met my husband at work.  If I'd have gone to his flat for the first time and it looked like a dump, I would have been put off.   Or if he had obnoxious friends or family.   Or liked Football.


    How's it going, AKA, Nutwatch? - 12 month spends to date = 2.60% of current retirement "pot" (as at end May 2025)
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