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The Guardian - Mother was scammed out of £29,000, but Lloyds showed little empathy

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  • adamp87
    adamp87 Posts: 900 Forumite
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    If these crypto scams keep on happening, I can see more banks flatly refusing to transfer any funds to cryptocurrency accounts. This whole refund malarkey is completely out of hand, I didn't realise that one could insure against stupidity. Free insurance, too.
    The issue here for me is that there’s some responsibility on the victim. They went and got a loan off £20k. I’m pretty sure they didn’t say what it was for..
  • kaMelo
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    edited 9 March 2023 at 4:43AM
    Whilst I wholeheartedly agree with your comments about people who try to drum up extra sympathy and support for their plight by playing the "woman" card I don't think that is what has happened here. The person who wrote to The Guardian is talking about their mother and that, from my reading at least, is the only reason mother/woman is mentioned.
    Not to give them a free pass on the matter though, rather than the "woman" card they played the "race" card instead. (Of course they did, it's The Guardian)

    There is an awful lot more to this story than what is mentioned in the article, the language problem being a case in point. The person who wrote into the newspaper points out clearly that English is not their mothers first language but makes no mention at all of the fact they have lived here and banked with Lloyds for thirty years.

    Ultimately there are only around five or six types of scam and despite claims to the contrary, none of them are very complex in how they work.  Each and every one of them has a point at which there should be bells ringing and red flags waving to the potential victim enabling them to stop the scam in it's tracks. 

    I do genuinely have sympathy with anyone who has fallen for a scam, it must be devastating and a real knock to their confidence but I have to ask where have they been for the last 25 years not to have noticed all the warnings about scams? (Probably in the same cave as the WASPI women I suspect)  Along with banks doing their bit people need to take some personal responsibility to protect themselves too.
  • phillw
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    But it seems to think she should have been able to protect herself from scammers.

    Yes. A financial lasting power of attorney would seem appropriate.

    Manipulating people by putting mother in the headline is a bit insulting.
  • phillw
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    sheramber said:
    I have had that message that the bank could not verify the account. It was a Clydesdale account and  Clydesdale were not part of COP.

    I knew it was genuine account.
    And they would have told you that you should only continue if you trusted the recipient
  • jimjames
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    If these crypto scams keep on happening, I can see more banks flatly refusing to transfer any funds to cryptocurrency accounts. 
    There is no crypto involved. It would be the same as offering to invest in shares that don't exist.
    Remember the saying: if it looks too good to be true it almost certainly is.
  • Xenon
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    The bank/loan company should not have refunded a penny as far as i am concerned


  • hoc
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    We not only fund the mistakes of these people we have to put up ever superfluous questions, warning messages and confirmation prompts when setting up and making payments.

    "English is not her first language". She's been a customer for 30 years, presumably living in the UK during this time. Many of my friends are from "ethnic minority backgrounds", some have parents who don't speak any English despite being here for decades, especially the mothers prefer to be in their own community. In these cases, for practical and often cultural reasons, the family's children handle communication with authorities and companies. It's an understood expectation. It's unrealistic to expect somebody help her in her language at the bank branch. She may have that benefit in a local ethnic food shop but wouldn't expect it at a major supermarket.

    This isn't a case of a vulnerable person with diminished mental capabilities being deceived. It isn't an elaborate con or using some advanced technology. How much of a language does one need to speak to understand they are making bank payments, etc.?

    I don't like banks but they are put in an impossible situation with these irresponsible articles with sensationalist headlines and "journalists" who minimise personal responsibility. If the bank had closed her account it would have been framed as some sort of discrimination.
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