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  • meeemee
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    Looking at your previous questions would you be using the £25k plus you have saved from your benefits to help your parents pay for this discounted house? Only leaving a smaller amount for your siblings to contribute, without a mortgage? 
  • Skiddaw1
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    Worth also pointing out that whilst State Pension isn't means tested, Pension Credit (if they recieve any) is... and yes, the capital would potentially affect it.
  • Presume they are already getting the OAP's 6 usual benefits - 'bus pass, state pension, free eye tests, winter fuel allowance, free prescription, £10 Xmas bonus?
  • Norman_Castle
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    Does that sum up what this thread is about; how to get a cheap house for which you have no entitlement, by manipulating a system which was never intended for this purpose, and for which the tax payer will pay the balance?

    Is this an ethical move? 
    From previous posts the OP seems quite comfortable and adept at making the most of the benefits system.
    this does sum it up both my parents have worked hard and paid their taxes we would fund the costs between 4 of us at no costs to our parents and do any future caring between 4 of us if needed sell up and relocate to a bungalow 
    How do you feel this would benefit your parents?

  • Brie
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    Don't do it as it's not worth the effort.

    You and your siblings could lend the money needed to your folks thus allowing them to buy.  And your parents could pay a token amount back to you in an "interest only" way perhaps.  They would retain a liability of you loaning them and you would get very little more than your money back when the house is eventually sold (as it most certainly will be).  Oh and who's paying the solicitor btw?

    You and your siblings seem to think that caring for elderly is easy (it's not) and that you will all do an equal share of this (highly unlikely).  So what if a one sibling lives too far away or has a lot of work/family commitments?  Or loses their job and has no money to fund that needed boiler or whatever?  Are you prepared to fall out with your siblings??

    And what about the local authority providing care either in this home or in a care facility?  As long as one of them is living there then the house won't be sold but as soon as neither lives there the house will be sold and the council will get the majority (either by reclaiming the discount or by buying it back at a discount.)  If this means that there's more than £23k in savings (each for each I believe) your folks will be paying for their own care.  Once it drops below then the council will pick up the tab.  And assuming they don't both die at the same moment there will likely be one of them who then ends up with the ripe total of £23k in the bank when they eventually clock out.   Don't forget that a cheap care home will cost them each at least £1k a week so the money will go quickly.

    So you give them your savings and pay all the expenses and get diddly in return until they both die.  At which point you are likely to get the princely sum of £23k to be split 4 ways between you and your siblings.  As opposed to £16k split 4 ways that you might get currently.  So my calculations tell me that you are going to go through a lot of stuff, expense out of your own pocket (can't claim expenses as your not landlords) and you're going to profit by the grand total of £1750 each. 

    So much effort, so little profit.  Don't do it.
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  • MalMonroe
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    I got a mortgage when in my 60s a few years ago, running until my age 80.

    Speak to a few brokers....

    Who pays for the discount please?
    We pay for the discount through our council tax. 
    Oh please, let's not start going down that route.
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  • Brie said:
    Don't do it as it's not worth the effort.

    You and your siblings could lend the money needed to your folks thus allowing them to buy.  And your parents could pay a token amount back to you in an "interest only" way perhaps.  They would retain a liability of you loaning them and you would get very little more than your money back when the house is eventually sold (as it most certainly will be).  Oh and who's paying the solicitor btw?

    You and your siblings seem to think that caring for elderly is easy (it's not) and that you will all do an equal share of this (highly unlikely).  So what if a one sibling lives too far away or has a lot of work/family commitments?  Or loses their job and has no money to fund that needed boiler or whatever?  Are you prepared to fall out with your siblings??

    And what about the local authority providing care either in this home or in a care facility?  As long as one of them is living there then the house won't be sold but as soon as neither lives there the house will be sold and the council will get the majority (either by reclaiming the discount or by buying it back at a discount.)  If this means that there's more than £23k in savings (each for each I believe) your folks will be paying for their own care.  Once it drops below then the council will pick up the tab.  And assuming they don't both die at the same moment there will likely be one of them who then ends up with the ripe total of £23k in the bank when they eventually clock out.   Don't forget that a cheap care home will cost them each at least £1k a week so the money will go quickly.

    So you give them your savings and pay all the expenses and get diddly in return until they both die.  At which point you are likely to get the princely sum of £23k to be split 4 ways between you and your siblings.  As opposed to £16k split 4 ways that you might get currently.  So my calculations tell me that you are going to go through a lot of stuff, expense out of your own pocket (can't claim expenses as your not landlords) and you're going to profit by the grand total of £1750 each. 

    So much effort, so little profit.  Don't do it.
    A well reasoned argument here, remember we're taking about a 100k house in South Tyneside (the prices aren't going to rocket like they might have elsewhere) not a million pound house where you might (might!) get a life changing inheritance. It's going to be what, 80k "profit" split 4 ways, much less if care home fees kick in or maintenance is needed. So even from a selfish perspective it might not be worth it for you. Let your parents have the security of their home in their old age and then let someone else benefit as they, and indeed you, have when they pass on.
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