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  • tiger135
    tiger135 Posts: 438 Forumite
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    thank you and would spare room be the best place to look for one? 
  • Sarah1Mitty2
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    tiger135 said:
    hi all, i am currently nearly forty and have ended up back at my parents, which is killing me mentally!
    i have a good amount in the bank but im not sure whether to buy now or wait as prices could come down.
    do i have any other options when the rental market is crazy prices?
    thanks , tiger
    Spoke to someone recently who went back to parents in their 30`s, now saving nearly 1k extra a month and SO glad they didn`t get sucked into a mortgage last year, rates are going to continue to go up it looks like from the latest data so get your savings into the highest paying account you can and wait for interest rates to do the heavy lifting of bringing down prices.
  • Sarah1Mitty2
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    edited 4 February 2023 at 7:16PM
    MFWannabe said:
    tiger135 said:
    hi all, i am currently nearly forty and have ended up back at my parents, which is killing me mentally!
    i have a good amount in the bank but im not sure whether to buy now or wait as prices could come down.
    do i have any other options when the rental market is crazy prices?
    thanks , tiger
    Spoke to someone recently who went back to parents in their 30`s, now saving nearly 1k extra a month and SO glad they didn`t get sucked into a mortgage last year, rates are going to continue to go up it looks like from the latest data so get your savings into the highest paying account you can and wait for interest rates to do the heavy lifting of bringing down prices.
    Then come back on here in 2 years time and say the same things again and house prices haven’t dropped by the amounts some people on here have been predicting for years 🤷‍♀️
    The person I spoke to is just happy to be banking an extra 1k in savings a month instead of paying an extra bundle to a bank for an already overpriced flat somewhere, the feeling of seeing your savings pile up is Gold they told me, I would imagine the feeling of coming off a fix having bought in the last few years (as they almost did) would be a feeling not very much like Gold?
  • tiger135
    tiger135 Posts: 438 Forumite
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    i know i could be getting 600 a month in interest if i dont buy and fix in a savings acc. 
    should i offset that against what im seeing as high rent prices ?

  • MFWannabe
    MFWannabe Posts: 2,454 Forumite
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    MFWannabe said:
    tiger135 said:
    hi all, i am currently nearly forty and have ended up back at my parents, which is killing me mentally!
    i have a good amount in the bank but im not sure whether to buy now or wait as prices could come down.
    do i have any other options when the rental market is crazy prices?
    thanks , tiger
    Spoke to someone recently who went back to parents in their 30`s, now saving nearly 1k extra a month and SO glad they didn`t get sucked into a mortgage last year, rates are going to continue to go up it looks like from the latest data so get your savings into the highest paying account you can and wait for interest rates to do the heavy lifting of bringing down prices.
    Then come back on here in 2 years time and say the same things again and house prices haven’t dropped by the amounts some people on here have been predicting for years 🤷‍♀️
    The person I spoke to is just happy to be banking an extra 1k in savings a month instead of paying an extra bundle to a bank for an already overpriced flat somewhere, the feeling of seeing your savings pile up is Gold they told me, I would imagine the feeling of coming off a fix having bought in the last few years (as they almost did) would be a feeling not very much like Gold?
    Seriously, if someone can earn that amount of interest per month they’d have enough money to buy somewhere outright 😂
    MFW 2025 #50: £1139.75/£6000

    12/06/25: Mortgage: £65,000.00
    07/03/25: Mortgage: £67,000.00
    18/01/25: Mortgage: £68,500.14
    27/12/24: Mortgage: £69,278.38 

    27/12/24: Debt: £0 🥳😁
    27/12/24: Savings: £12,000

    07/03/25: Savings: £16,500

  • diystarter7
    diystarter7 Posts: 5,202 Forumite
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    Hi
    Why did you move back in and why are you not moving back out now you know how you feel?

    Thanks
  • tiger135
    tiger135 Posts: 438 Forumite
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    Ive just got stuck ... not finding the properties id like to buy none are coming on the market. i moved back after lodging at a friends which had a bit more independence. he moved on elsewhere so i had to leave.

  • diystarter7
    diystarter7 Posts: 5,202 Forumite
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    you sound so desperate to leave is the reason I said that and still not sure why you wont move now
    if i felt like you, i'd be out a-sap, ino ifs, no buts.
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