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Selling house because of separation and having debt.

mallen
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Hi all,
I am currently separated from my wife and am wanting to sell the house and split the funds.
The house is worth around £290k and I have £185k outstanding on the mortgage and around £25k of credit card and loan debt.
My issue is I want to use the funds from selling the house to clear all family debt then split the rest between us allowing me to purchase another property. This existing debt is affecting my new mortgage applications.
Are there any lenders that will accept the debt with the understanding or a contract in place that it will be paid off with the old house funds? I am trying to find anyway to avoid going into rented accommodation after the sale.
Thank you.
Thank you.
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I think this is pretty normal. Have you actually tried looking for mortgages already and had trouble because of this?0
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I had a small amount of unsecured debt and on my mortgage offer (nationwide) there was a special condition that the debt would be cleared before the new mortgage commenced and that it was fine to clear the debt using equity from the sale of my exists home.0
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It all depends on the financial settlement associated with your divorce. The starting point is 50:50 but that would include the house, debts and savings plus pensions and other assets. If there are children, it's more complicated.
Have you started mediation and filed the relevant financial disclosure forms?
If you've have not made a mistake, you've made nothing1 -
House is all in my name as is all the debt. Hoping to sell before divorce and sort 50/50 which has been agreed.I’ll call my mortgage lender later today to discuss.0
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mallen said:Are there any lenders that will accept the debt with the understanding or a contract in place that it will be paid off with the old house funds?
Thank you.Feb 2008, 20year lifetime tracker with "Sproggit and Sylvester"... 0.14% + base for 2 years, then 0.99% + base for life of mortgage...base was 5.5% in 2008...but not for long. Credit to my mortgage broker1 -
mallen said:House is all in my name as is all the debt. Hoping to sell before divorce and sort 50/50 which has been agreed.I’ll call my mortgage lender later today to discuss.
Unless this is a short marriage (around 5 years including living together prior to marriage), everything is an asset of the marriage.
Obviously, if you sell prior to divorce, that leaves you open to further discussions about assets as part of the divorce settlement.If you've have not made a mistake, you've made nothing1 -
mallen said:Hi all,I am currently separated from my wife and am wanting to sell the house and split the funds.The house is worth around £290k and I have £185k outstanding on the mortgage and around £25k of credit card and loan debt.My issue is I want to use the funds from selling the house to clear all family debt then split the rest between us allowing me to purchase another property. This existing debt is affecting my new mortgage applications.Are there any lenders that will accept the debt with the understanding or a contract in place that it will be paid off with the old house funds? I am trying to find anyway to avoid going into rented accommodation after the sale.
Thank you.
£290k selling price, then less £185k mortgage and £25k debt leaves £80k equity, which you seem to have agreed to split equally, so you will have a £40k deposit for another house and no remaining debts.
Does your wife have any debts that will also need to be paid from the mortgage?Should've = Should HAVE (not 'of')
Would've = Would HAVE (not 'of')
No, I am not perfect, but yes I do judge people on their use of basic English language. If you didn't know the above, then learn it! (If English is your second language, then you are forgiven!)0
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