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At Breaking Point - Help to decide on settlement, please!!
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But if he doesn't get the money for 8 years then surely the value of any payment will increased by then.0
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tightauldgit said:gizmo111 said:DullGreyGuy said:ChrissyTA86 said:
Long story short - on paper he is entitled to very 'little' of the value of the house - I won't go into details. but this is a fact and has been agreed by 3 solicitors.
Whilst £15k may sound like a lot of money with a property being involved it doesnt sound much at all and there would be some discount for getting it now rather than at some point in the future.
Fully agree with others, unless you can afford to stick to your principles you can easily end up spending more in total by arguing and racking up solicitor fees than compromising... for some thats ok, they'd rather pay their sol £20k than their ex £5k
Personally, I think there is a notable value in being able to draw a line under things and so would be looking to see how I could raise the funds to finish the matter for good.
Presumably the current equity is in part passive growth through house price rises and part due to OP paying the mortgage and reducing the capital debt. He is likelyt o be entitled to share of the first, not necessarily of the second. And if he owed her money they that's also relevant.
OP - if he is going to have to wait, then normally the amount would be a % of the value of the property (not the equity, to voif him benefit from your future payments) soyou would usually work out the current figure (e.g. £15K, work out what that is as % of the house's current value (e.g. if your house was worth £150,000 it would be 10%, if your house was worth £300,000 it would be 5%. If you currently have a £100,000 mortgge on a £150,000 house it is 30% of the equity but (suppose housepriaes didn't change) if in 8 years you had reduced the mortgage down to £50,000, he would still get £15,000 (10% of the house price) not £30,000 (30% of the net equity) becuase the charge back is set out as a % of value not equity)
Do you have any family or friends who might be able to help you out? An offer of £5K now as opposed to £15K in 8 yers time might be quite appealing to him, if you were able to raise it. And it is generally fair for someone to get more if they are not getting it striaght away.
Maybe offer striaght fixed lump sum of £10,000 in 8 years.
One way of considering what would be fiar would be to look at what the housevlaue is now compared to when you separated - suppose it has gone up in vaue by £30,000 hr might say that he should have half of that, or £15,000. But if you were £10,000 in negtive equity then the actualgain to you and hm was only £20,000 so he might be entitled to £10,000. Then when you have worked out what his share of the net gain is, take off any money he owws and start from there.
All posts are my personal opinion, not formal advice Always get proper, professional advice (particularly about anything legal!)0 -
TBagpuss said:tightauldgit said:gizmo111 said:DullGreyGuy said:ChrissyTA86 said:
Long story short - on paper he is entitled to very 'little' of the value of the house - I won't go into details. but this is a fact and has been agreed by 3 solicitors.
Whilst £15k may sound like a lot of money with a property being involved it doesnt sound much at all and there would be some discount for getting it now rather than at some point in the future.
Fully agree with others, unless you can afford to stick to your principles you can easily end up spending more in total by arguing and racking up solicitor fees than compromising... for some thats ok, they'd rather pay their sol £20k than their ex £5k
Personally, I think there is a notable value in being able to draw a line under things and so would be looking to see how I could raise the funds to finish the matter for good.
PResumablythe current equity is in part passicve groth through house price rises and part due to OP paying the mortgage and reducing the capital debt. HE is likelyto be ebntitled to share of the first, not necessarily of the second. And if he owed her money they that's also relvant.
OP - if he is going to have to wait, then normally the amount would be a % of the value of the property (not the equity, to voif him benefit from your future payments) soyou would usually work out the current figure (e.g. £15K, work out what that is as % of the house's current value (e.g. if your house was worth £150,000 it would be 10%, if your house was worth £300,000 it would be 5%. If you currently have a £100,000 mortgge on a £150,000 house it is 30% of the equity but (suppose housepriaes didn't change) if in 8 years you had reduced the mortgage down to £50,000, he would still get £15,000 (10% of the house price) not £30,000 (30% of the net equity) becuase the charge back is set out as a % of value not equity)
Do you have any family or friends who might be able to help you out? An offer of £5K now as opposed to £15K in 8 yers time might be quite appealing to him, if you were able to raise it. And it is generally fair for someone to get more if they are not getting it striaght away.
Maybe offer striaght fixed lump sum of £10,000 in 8 years.
One way of considering what would be fiar would be to look at what the housevlaue is now compared to when you separated - suppose it has gone up in vaue by £30,000 hr might say that he should have half of that, or £15,000. But if you were £10,000 in negtive equity then the actualgain to you and hm was only £20,000 so he might be entitled to £10,000. Then when you have worked out what his share of the net gain is, take off any money he owws and start from there.
In my experience while a court is 'entitled' to take into account any circumstances they want to unless the circumstances are egregious they probably won't. And so far we haven't heard any detail as to why the OP thinks they aren't entitled to their fair share.
But since the OP doesn't look like they are coming back to answer any further questions or provide any further information it's moot.0 -
sheramber said:But if he doesn't get the money for 8 years then surely the value of any payment will increased by then.All posts are my personal opinion, not formal advice Always get proper, professional advice (particularly about anything legal!)1
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