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Is it legal to ask a family member (my mum) to save money for me?
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Simonblakely
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I will have used up my regular saver allowance with my bank and was wondering if I can use hers. I'm not trying to hide money or avoid tax. Plus I trust her totally
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Yes.Most married couples do it. And she is your mum.0
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You can give your money to anyone you like, and they can do with it what they like. For tax, inheritance, benefit and other purposes,
the money counts as theirs.
I am surprised you can't find other Regular Savers that you can open in your name.1 -
NB. If your real name is Simon Blakely, you should sunset this account and open another one with a nickname that doesn't give your name away.1
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Band7 said:You can give your money to anyone you like, and they can do with it what they like. For tax, inheritance, benefit and other purposes,
the money counts as theirs.
You couldn't just 'gift' all your money away just before you die or go into a care home (for example) to avoid inheritance tax or care home fees. There are lengthy rules and limits surrounding this.
Likewise I'm not sure how I feel about the suggestion of 'gifting' your money away for benefit purposes. I don't know the rules on this, so I'm not sure if someone could 'gift' a significant amount of money to a close relative, then claim benefits? I'm sure someone more knowledgeable will clarify.
Please note that if someone does intend to capitalise on 'gifting' money, it is important to remember the cons - mainly that the money ceases to be yours. One particularly bad argument with the person and you can kiss goodbye to any reasonable prospect of recovering the money.Know what you don't2 -
You can open 6 across Natwest, RBS, Lloyds, Bank of Scotland, Halifax
Totalling £1450 a month, with interest rates from 4.5% to 5.25%
Barclays Rainy day saver allows you to save £5000 at 5% too, though you need two direct debits on the account to offset the £5 monthly fee for.
I'm not touching regular savers lower than that, because in my opinion easy access or fixed rate isa's are a better bet.
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Simonblakely said:I will have used up my regular saver allowance with my bank and was wondering if I can use hers. I'm not trying to hide money or avoid tax. Plus I trust her totally4
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Exodi said:
Likewise I'm not sure how I feel about the suggestion of 'gifting' your money away for benefit purposes. I don't know the rules on this, so I'm not sure if someone could 'gift' a significant amount of money to a close relative, then claim benefits? I'm sure someone more knowledgeable will clarify.
But Band7 is correct in one sense - your relative's eligibility for means tested benefits would also be negatively affected.2 -
Exodi said:Band7 said:You can give your money to anyone you like, and they can do with it what they like. For tax, inheritance, benefit and other purposes,
the money counts as theirs.
You couldn't just 'gift' all your money away just before you die or go into a care home (for example) to avoid inheritance tax or care home fees. There are lengthy rules and limits surrounding this.
Likewise I'm not sure how I feel about the suggestion of 'gifting' your money away for benefit purposes. I don't know the rules on this, so I'm not sure if someone could 'gift' a significant amount of money to a close relative, then claim benefits? I'm sure someone more knowledgeable will clarify.
Please note that if someone does intend to capitalise on 'gifting' money, it is important to remember the cons - mainly that the money ceases to be yours. One particularly bad argument with the person and you can kiss goodbye to any reasonable prospect of recovering the money.
What exactly is overly simplified and misleading in what I said? I have merely stated facts, verifiable facts at that. I have not commented on potential consequences - it's up to the people involved to inform themselves. Granted, I didn't mention Deprivation Of Assets, mainly because I - perhaps wrongly - didn't think this would be a possibility in OP's case.
FWIW, I would never ask a 3rd party to save money for me, and as I stated, I am surprised the OP wouldn't find other accounts they can open in their own name.0 -
Band7 said:Exodi said:Band7 said:You can give your money to anyone you like, and they can do with it what they like. For tax, inheritance, benefit and other purposes,
the money counts as theirs.
You couldn't just 'gift' all your money away just before you die or go into a care home (for example) to avoid inheritance tax or care home fees. There are lengthy rules and limits surrounding this.
Likewise I'm not sure how I feel about the suggestion of 'gifting' your money away for benefit purposes. I don't know the rules on this, so I'm not sure if someone could 'gift' a significant amount of money to a close relative, then claim benefits? I'm sure someone more knowledgeable will clarify.
Please note that if someone does intend to capitalise on 'gifting' money, it is important to remember the cons - mainly that the money ceases to be yours. One particularly bad argument with the person and you can kiss goodbye to any reasonable prospect of recovering the money.
What exactly is overly simplified and misleading in what I said? I have merely stated facts, verifiable facts at that. I have not commented on potential consequences - it's up to the people involved to inform themselves. Granted, I didn't mention Deprivation Of Assets, mainly because I - perhaps wrongly - didn't think this would be a possibility in OP's case.
FWIW, I would never ask a 3rd party to save money for me, and as I stated, I am surprised the OP wouldn't find other accounts they can open in their own name.loose does not rhyme with choose but lose does and is the word you meant to write.4
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