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Currently living rent-free with my parents - should I buy or wait until a "better" time?
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Gycraig said:MobileSaver said:andyr24 said:I am pretty much in the same position as you. I've just sold my house while prices were good and decided to live with my parentsIs it just you moving back in with parents or you and boyfriend/girlfriend/husband/wife? In an emergency I could probably manage a month or two but planning on living back with parents for a year or more... that's just unthinkable. Fair play to you and your parents if you can happily manage that.andyr24 said:If you're thinking with your head and not your heart, then you should wait. ... I would estimate that house prices are going to be at their trough in 2 yearsI can't imagine putting part of my life on hold for 2 years but each to their own.What happens if in 2 years house prices haven't dropped as you'd expected? What does "thinking with your head" suggest you do then, keep waiting? (To give some context, one poster here sold up over ten years ago and has spent the last 10 years convinced prices will crash but of course they never did and now never will drop to the level he needs to have been proven right.)
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MobileSaver said:Gycraig said:MobileSaver said:andyr24 said:I am pretty much in the same position as you. I've just sold my house while prices were good and decided to live with my parentsIs it just you moving back in with parents or you and boyfriend/girlfriend/husband/wife? In an emergency I could probably manage a month or two but planning on living back with parents for a year or more... that's just unthinkable. Fair play to you and your parents if you can happily manage that.andyr24 said:If you're thinking with your head and not your heart, then you should wait. ... I would estimate that house prices are going to be at their trough in 2 yearsI can't imagine putting part of my life on hold for 2 years but each to their own.What happens if in 2 years house prices haven't dropped as you'd expected? What does "thinking with your head" suggest you do then, keep waiting? (To give some context, one poster here sold up over ten years ago and has spent the last 10 years convinced prices will crash but of course they never did and now never will drop to the level he needs to have been proven right.)Fair, I wouldn’t wanna tie myself in for 5 years at these interest rates but you raise a fair point.I don’t get your obsession with living alone though tbh, plenty of cultures don’t move out until much older than the uk who averages 25 for moving out. Apart from being able to have sex loudly when I want it my lifestyle is exactly the same in my own house as it was living with my wives parents.0
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Gycraig said:MobileSaver said:Gycraig said:MobileSaver said:andyr24 said:I am pretty much in the same position as you. I've just sold my house while prices were good and decided to live with my parentsIs it just you moving back in with parents or you and boyfriend/girlfriend/husband/wife? In an emergency I could probably manage a month or two but planning on living back with parents for a year or more... that's just unthinkable. Fair play to you and your parents if you can happily manage that.andyr24 said:If you're thinking with your head and not your heart, then you should wait. ... I would estimate that house prices are going to be at their trough in 2 yearsI can't imagine putting part of my life on hold for 2 years but each to their own.What happens if in 2 years house prices haven't dropped as you'd expected? What does "thinking with your head" suggest you do then, keep waiting? (To give some context, one poster here sold up over ten years ago and has spent the last 10 years convinced prices will crash but of course they never did and now never will drop to the level he needs to have been proven right.)Fair, I wouldn’t wanna tie myself in for 5 years at these interest rates but you raise a fair point.I don’t get your obsession with living alone though tbh, plenty of cultures don’t move out until much older than the uk who averages 25 for moving out. Apart from being able to have sex loudly when I want it my lifestyle is exactly the same in my own house as it was living with my wives parents.2
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Gycraig said:MobileSaver said:Gycraig said:MobileSaver said:andyr24 said:If you're thinking with your head and not your heart, then you should wait. ... I would estimate that house prices are going to be at their trough in 2 yearsI can't imagine putting part of my life on hold for 2 years but each to their own.What happens if in 2 years house prices haven't dropped as you'd expected? What does "thinking with your head" suggest you do then, keep waiting? (To give some context, one poster here sold up over ten years ago and has spent the last 10 years convinced prices will crash but of course they never did and now never will drop to the level he needs to have been proven right.)Every generation blames the one before...
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Gycraig said:Sarah1Mitty2 said:Gycraig said:Sarah1Mitty2 said:Gycraig said:MobileSaver said:Woolsery said:MobileSaver said:Woolsery said:BikingBud said:Gycraig said:MobileSaver said:Gycraig said:MobileSaver said:Gycraig said:There is a massive difference between my bank stress testing me up to a 1200 pound a month on my mortgage and me and others actually wanting to pay that.Gycraig said:Plenty of people I know who where ready for “the next step” are now staying at where they are. Only time will tell but I don’t see how it’s gonna be sustainable long term to have these interest rates / energy prices before everything crashes around us.It would appear that people you know are not representative of the general public. The latest official housing stats are out and just last month 100,000 people bought a house which is roughly the same number who bought a house every month for the last ten years.It always amuses me when people predict "everything crashes around us" rather than the more likely and more obvious that prices will probably just stagnate, going up a little and down a little over the next few years.Gycraig said:People may still move but it will be to cheaper houses in general,The next level of house for me is going to cost triple what my current mortgage is costing me. I can’t afford that comfortably and I don’t think many families can. I’m possibly wrong but I don’t see how energy bills can quadruple, mortgages can go up 50-60 percent and house prices stay the same or go up.One of my children was evicted by a landlord, keen to sell before the drop. She's returned home with her husband, and together they're saving at an even greater rate than the OP, knowing they won't be evicted again. Why on earth would they rush out and buy right now?It was a tongue in cheek comment to highlight that the right time to buy is when they need their own home rather than trying to time the market. Of course it's great that you can temporarily put them up while they continue saving for a deposit.However, conversely, it's false economy waiting several years for boom times to come or house prices to fall if, for example, in the meantime your daughter's marriage falls apart because hubby is increasingly resentful about living with in-laws or your own relationships become strained for the same reason.Regarding becoming “resentful” it depends what the parents house is like really, my wife’s parents had a “spare” bedroom with an en-suite and a spare front room. Only thing we shared was kitchen.Rental properties also generally tend to be the lower end of the market so shouldn’t really struggle to sell, I don’t think starter homes will struggle to kick it will be more the “second step” houses that people traditionally move up to.The tenant gets “destroyed” because the price of btl mortgages have gone up 50% at the standard 25% deposit btl mortgage.When rents start going up do you really think these landlords who own properties outright/have smaller mortgages are going to leave that money on that table ?. The cost to keep the new mortgages profitable are going to be crippling for landlords and tenants.How will there be “less tenants” in a recession exactly, where are they going to go ?0
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Seandlee24 said:After 5 years living in London, I moved back in with my parents (near Manchester) in order to save the final portion of my deposit.
At present, I have about £40k saved and earn a decent salary, so getting a mortgage for the kind of properties I'm looking at won't be an issue. For a 35-year mortgage, my monthly mortgage will be around £1,200 (approx 35% of take-home pay).
My main question/concern is, should I continue living at my parents, saving c.£1.5k per month and building a larger deposit whilst I "wait out" the current situation, in the hope that house prices and interest rates begin to drop in the first half of next year, or look to buy a property as soon as one comes up that I like the look of, knowing that I'm potentially overpaying in terms of both prices and potentially interest rates for fixed period?
Worth saying, I'm looking for answers from a financial viewpoint. There are clearly the obvious social/cultural/expenses benefits and drawbacks of living with parents/moving out - I'm lucky in that I get on relatively well with my parents.
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Sarah1Mitty2 said:Seandlee24 said:After 5 years living in London, I moved back in with my parents (near Manchester) in order to save the final portion of my deposit.
At present, I have about £40k saved and earn a decent salary, so getting a mortgage for the kind of properties I'm looking at won't be an issue. For a 35-year mortgage, my monthly mortgage will be around £1,200 (approx 35% of take-home pay).
My main question/concern is, should I continue living at my parents, saving c.£1.5k per month and building a larger deposit whilst I "wait out" the current situation, in the hope that house prices and interest rates begin to drop in the first half of next year, or look to buy a property as soon as one comes up that I like the look of, knowing that I'm potentially overpaying in terms of both prices and potentially interest rates for fixed period?
Worth saying, I'm looking for answers from a financial viewpoint. There are clearly the obvious social/cultural/expenses benefits and drawbacks of living with parents/moving out - I'm lucky in that I get on relatively well with my parents.
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tunde10 said:35 year mortgage seems like a long time.
Are these properties affordable on a 25 years mortgage? If so and you're ready, i'd move as its a home, not necessarily an investment.
If you can only just about afford it and on a 35yr mortgage. Best to keep savings and hope house prices stay the same or fall and you'd be in a stronger position with almost 50% more deposit in a years time
Since then I moved and remortgaged with new 25 year terms on many occasions so a 35 year initial term is no different to moving onto a new deal 10 years after the first. I do hope interest rates don't go where they did in the 1980s when I had to get a 5 year fix at 15% just to keep my head above waterSignature on holiday for two weeks0 -
Seandlee24 said:Sarah1Mitty2 said:Seandlee24 said:After 5 years living in London, I moved back in with my parents (near Manchester) in order to save the final portion of my deposit.
At present, I have about £40k saved and earn a decent salary, so getting a mortgage for the kind of properties I'm looking at won't be an issue. For a 35-year mortgage, my monthly mortgage will be around £1,200 (approx 35% of take-home pay).
My main question/concern is, should I continue living at my parents, saving c.£1.5k per month and building a larger deposit whilst I "wait out" the current situation, in the hope that house prices and interest rates begin to drop in the first half of next year, or look to buy a property as soon as one comes up that I like the look of, knowing that I'm potentially overpaying in terms of both prices and potentially interest rates for fixed period?
Worth saying, I'm looking for answers from a financial viewpoint. There are clearly the obvious social/cultural/expenses benefits and drawbacks of living with parents/moving out - I'm lucky in that I get on relatively well with my parents.
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Mutton_Geoff said:tunde10 said:35 year mortgage seems like a long time.
Are these properties affordable on a 25 years mortgage? If so and you're ready, i'd move as its a home, not necessarily an investment.
If you can only just about afford it and on a 35yr mortgage. Best to keep savings and hope house prices stay the same or fall and you'd be in a stronger position with almost 50% more deposit in a years time
Since then I moved and remortgaged with new 25 year terms on many occasions so a 35 year initial term is no different to moving onto a new deal 10 years after the first. I do hope interest rates don't go where they did in the 1980s when I had to get a 5 year fix at 15% just to keep my head above water1
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