Deciding what to do after break up

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Hi @Daisy_Anne, Sorry to hear of the situation you're in, which is compounded by the current state of the market and all the uncertainty. It sounds like there is no straightforward solution, and every option has its downsides. What would make it easiest for you, in the short and long term? From what you've said, it sounds like you might be a bit worried about long-term affordability so maybe, as others are suggesting, it might be time for a fresh start. It does seem as though house prices will be down (at least a little) in coming months, so that could open up more possibilities for you. 

Titus_Wadd

Back in the early 90s I bought out my ex-husband and regretted it.  At the time it seemed an easier option,  not having to move and I was earning more but I remortgaged just as interest rates peaked around 15-17% which was crippling, it meant I had to stay in a job I really didn't enjoy and work shifts to meet the bills.  I eventually sold with £7k negative equity a few years later.  On reflection I wish we'd just put it up for sale.
It's a difficult transition back to single but you'll get through it.