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Inheritance theft
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Ultimately, if the deceased had been honest and declared this money he would not have been defrauding the benefits agency out of goodness knows how much. And if that had been the case, there would have been very little money in his tins under the bed to leave to anyone!1
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Depending on when the pools win was, there are limited places old notes can be cashed.The bottom line is that whilst there was once cash from a pools win, its hard to evidence that it was there on your partner's father's death. It may have been spent in many ways and if frittered away, some people can get embarrassed admitting it was squandered.Unfortunately unless you can provide evidence it existed it might as well not have. Hearsay is sadly insufficient.Your partner can report the 'alleged' benefit fraud, they will loose their siblings but there is no guarantee that any enquiries could prove any wrongdoing either. If their relationship has broken down so much, they should cut their siblings out of their life and let extended family know the reason.May you find your sister soon Helli.
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ggtazzy said:This is the situation my partners father was disabled and claiming benefits
Why did he keep it in cash in house because he could not have any more than £16,000 in his bank account.0 -
Mrs_Z said:The_Fat_Controller said:
I have no idea how a joint account would be treated after one party dies in the absence of a will.
How did the siblings even gain access to this account? Was the bank notified of the death of the account holder?"You've been reading SOS when it's just your clock reading 5:05 "0 -
Grumpy_chap said:ggtazzy said:This is the situation my partners father was disabled and claiming benefits
Why did he keep it in cash in house because he could not have any more than £16,000 in his bank account."You've been reading SOS when it's just your clock reading 5:05 "0 -
sammyjammy said:Grumpy_chap said:ggtazzy said:This is the situation my partners father was disabled and claiming benefits
Why did he keep it in cash in house because he could not have any more than £16,000 in his bank account.
Do we know if the deceased was a pensioner?
I've skimmed back and I can't see any mention of ages.How's it going, AKA, Nutwatch? - 12 month spends to date = 2.60% of current retirement "pot" (as at end May 2025)0 -
sammyjammy said:Grumpy_chap said:ggtazzy said:This is the situation my partners father was disabled and claiming benefits
Why did he keep it in cash in house because he could not have any more than £16,000 in his bank account.
There is no mention of age at death but I'd assumed at least some of that "over 40 years" was below state pension age. For a male to accrue over 40 years beyond age 65 takes them to over 100 so I'd even say some of that "over 40 years" must have been while working age.ggtazzy said:This is the situation my partners father was disabled and claiming benefits for over 40 years
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As your partner is clearly not going to speak to the siblings again, the I guess a suggestion would be to phone them up, let them know you can "prove" the other money existed in cash in the house, so unless they pay your partner the fair share of the inheritance and show some receipts for costs, then you will be contacting the DWP so that the entire estate will be clawed back due to the benefit fraud that took place.
(your partner will probably then lose their £2000 too, but you did say they didn't care about the money...)
Some people behave so badly when it comes to death and inheritance.Should've = Should HAVE (not 'of')
Would've = Would HAVE (not 'of')
No, I am not perfect, but yes I do judge people on their use of basic English language. If you didn't know the above, then learn it! (If English is your second language, then you are forgiven!)1
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