It’s hard to let go.

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I gave my dear mother end of life care at her home with a hospital type bed installed. Today I was hoovering, but two years after her death I still find some of her hair imbedded in the carpet. The thing is I purposely don’t hoover it up. Her clothes are still in the wardrobes.
My question to you is – is this normal behaviour? Clearly I haven’t let her go yet and i know passage of time does heal.
Wing Commander Guy Gibson, VC, DSO & Bar, DFC & Bar. ''Enemy Coast Ahead''
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My Dad passed earlier this year and my mum 4 years ago, it took my Dad and us a couple of years to clear out the wardrobes of most of mum's clothes etc, and there's still plenty of her stuff in drawers etc. We're in no rush to sell my Dad's house, partly because it's been a family home for over 40 years and it will take a lot to start to clear it which again I'm in no rush to do.
I just want to say don't be too hard on yourself, caring for someone and loosing them is tough. 🫂. I don't think time does heal we just get better at living with the loss.
I can bear pain myself, he said softly, but I couldna bear yours. That would take more strength than I have -
Diana Gabaldon, Outlander
Maybe give some thought to having a bear made from a couple of items of her clothing, I've seen some stunning ones, with embroidered words of love on, made in a way that will bring thoughts of your mum wearing the items, not just bits of material stitched together.
A cushion for the sofa, or a quilted throw, BUT, you shouldn't do anything you can't undo. The only thing you should do is whatever feels right for you.
What they all said.
I don't know if this would help OP, but www.sueryder.org have a bereavement forum which is very helpful to dip into when you wonder if you're going slightly mad with your grief (you're not, by the way).
Anything that helps is the general concensus providing it's neither illegal or harmful.
We've recently lost Mum. I would find "inheriting" her hiking boots and winter coat to wear comforting. My brother cannot bear to see things of hers, but wants to make a memorium box to put a few things in. My Dad's ready to sort her clothes - he finds them still being in the same places really hard.
We all have our own ways and that is absolutely OK.
I've lost both my parents and my husband in quite short order and therefore dealing with all three of their belongings in a perpetual cycle of sorting and deciding what to keep, what to chuck etc. Most of my husband's clothes went quite early, purely because we'd needed to clear out the [too small really] bedroom to make space for a hospital bed and often several nurses at the same time, so his clothes were tipped out of cupboards into laundry bags, so that we could remove furniture out of the way, so there was no point in putting them back into the new furniture I had to later get. I've kept a few favourite pieces that I just can't get rid of in a nice storage box. I also found walking past his coats hanging up to be difficult, so I did send the best of them to a charity shop a while ago - my son helped with that as he felt the same - it made it look like he'd just popped out. The hospice who provided the staff that looked after him will get something back, so all's good.
I've also kept scraps of pertinent fabrics from my Mum etc (she was a prolific sewer, so I often have the fabric offcuts to garments I can remember but themselves have gone), as @SevenOfNine mentioned, to make into something as keepsakes for my sister and I - I make make up style pouches etc. to keep things in when I holiday, so I'll line some with fabrics that have meaning to us - so they'll come on travels with us.
So just do what works for you - it doesn't matter what anyone else thinks.
I completely agree with all the comments above about grief being very personal etc, but if you are living in someone else's property, you do have both moral support and an obligation to consider their views. Hopefully two men in their 50s (I'm assuming you are both in the same sort of age bracket) can have an adult conversation without either being needlessly distressed by it.
You've taken a step forwards by posting the question, and it means that you are thinking about next steps, and when they should happen in relation to your own life. I decided that aside from a couple of nick-nacks that I'll keep for memories sake, and the odd fixture, I'm going to clear the whole house. I have already been through the clothes trying to work out what would be good for charity, and what realistically was well-worn stuff that wouldn't have another use (except for shredding in clothes banks) - and have cleared many of the personal possessions. I'm sure you'll do the right thing when the time is right for you.