Buying house together with Mother in law but MIL not on the mortgage - tax?

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Hi there,
Please help me try to make my family dream come true. Myself and husband have found the house of our dreams and we want to live with my husband's mum (MIL - Mother in law). We all get on super well and have thought about this for years. We are nearly there, we have found the house, had the offer accepted, my husband and I are selling our house and my MIL the same, offers accepted all round. Deposits all ready. Mortgage is fine. Everything going great, everyone getting excited. Then my solicitor and my financial advisor cant agree and I cant become an expert in their fields to sort it out. I am literally eating comfort cake and going grey!
The solicitor is saying that my MIL must be on the mortgage as a legal owner. My Financial advisor is saying no, that is not needed and not possible. We don't want MIL on mortgage as my husband and I are going to pay is off. Financial advisor says that she is too old for mortgage of the length we need (MIL is retired), 3 people on mortgage too tricky and not needed. My solicitor is saying that he will need to tell HMRC what we doing and we will need to register as a Trust and HMRC will want tax if MIL not on mortgage. I am trying to do all things properly but have no idea what I am doing and they keep sending me back to the other one. I am happy to tell HMRC - but what will then happen, worried I will lose hard earned money because I don't know enough.
I literally ring one sort it with them, then ring the other one and back to square one. Then eat cake. Then the next day I start again.
Please help otherwise cake shortage looming in my local area. Thank you.
Please help me try to make my family dream come true. Myself and husband have found the house of our dreams and we want to live with my husband's mum (MIL - Mother in law). We all get on super well and have thought about this for years. We are nearly there, we have found the house, had the offer accepted, my husband and I are selling our house and my MIL the same, offers accepted all round. Deposits all ready. Mortgage is fine. Everything going great, everyone getting excited. Then my solicitor and my financial advisor cant agree and I cant become an expert in their fields to sort it out. I am literally eating comfort cake and going grey!
The solicitor is saying that my MIL must be on the mortgage as a legal owner. My Financial advisor is saying no, that is not needed and not possible. We don't want MIL on mortgage as my husband and I are going to pay is off. Financial advisor says that she is too old for mortgage of the length we need (MIL is retired), 3 people on mortgage too tricky and not needed. My solicitor is saying that he will need to tell HMRC what we doing and we will need to register as a Trust and HMRC will want tax if MIL not on mortgage. I am trying to do all things properly but have no idea what I am doing and they keep sending me back to the other one. I am happy to tell HMRC - but what will then happen, worried I will lose hard earned money because I don't know enough.
I literally ring one sort it with them, then ring the other one and back to square one. Then eat cake. Then the next day I start again.
Please help otherwise cake shortage looming in my local area. Thank you.
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I might be missing details in the background or misunderstanding your post but it's not clear to me what the solicitor's objection is about. Is it to do with her funding the deposit for the property but not being on the mortgage or not being on the deeds?
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It sets out who has what share (should things go wrong later and you then need to sell).
I had this when we had a house with my partner and parents, and it was a good thing we did as we then got divorced later and my partner tried to take half of everything. If we didn't have the trust deed it would have been a lot harder to fight it.
It just protects everyone's interests but still allows you to purchase without your mother in law having any mention on the deeds or mortgage.
Perhaps the solicitor is disagreeing with you as he's looking after your MIL's interests as well, whereas your FA isn't?
If the MIL is okay with essentially gifting you her equity, that needs to be clear to the solicitor.
And then the easiest way is to do that as a separate transaction - she gifts you the proceeds of her sale (gifting is tax free, but subject to inheritance tax, should she pass in the next 7 years), you go buy a house with it.
One can hold an interest in the property even without being a legal owner, as your MIL will be through the deed of trust.
Another potential option is to have all three on the mortgage and use a lender who will discount the age of borrowers who don't have any income.
Just to be clear, I'm not saying that you absolutely cannot get a mortgage with the arrangements as described, but in this case it looks like the lender's requirements don't match the circumstances.
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I'd say at one end of the spectrum, NatWest won't bat an eyelid while at the other, Santander wouldn't lend.