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To complain or not to complain . . . That is the question

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A little background.
We are retired folk, our neighbours (moved in 3 years ago) are younger (early 40's)  we don't socialise but thus far we get along fine, passing the time of day when our paths cross  So all good so far.

I have no real desire to 'disturb' the status quo, but . . . .  this is the problem.


The white car in the foreground is mine, on my drive and we 'look out' on a skip for 6 months of the year ( maybe more)  the one in the picture has been there 8 weeks.
The man has a business and we get regular white vans pulling up behind said skip and offloading into the skip. It's pretty windy around here and we often get debris off the skip and down our drive. That plastic on the skip is probably coming 'our way'when the wind blows :o

So, to live with it or risk disturbing the 'bon homie' that currently exists ?  "That is the question" 

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  • If that was me, I would be tempted to speak to them and just ask if it’s possible for them to cover the skip to avoid the rubbish coming into your garden. It’s probably a good chance to understand why they have it there in the first place. 
  • diego_94
    diego_94 Posts: 222 Forumite
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    Unless they are doing home improvements; complain. Take's the biscuit really and is very selfish. I bet they park their cars on the road as well?
  • eddddy
    eddddy Posts: 18,011 Forumite
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    It's a bit of a tough one. If you  politely complain to the neighbour first, and they do nothing about it - so you have to then complain to the authorities - they'll probably guess it was you that reported them. And that might result in strained relations with your neighbours.

    If you complain directly to the authorities, without speaking to the neighbour first, they can be less sure it was you who reported them.


  • As @GM would have said, tea and cake and ask them to cover it.
    2006 LBM £28,000+ in debt.
    2021 mortgage and debt free, working part time and living the dream
  • theartfullodger
    theartfullodger Posts: 15,704 Forumite
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    Do you want to have to declare a dispute when you sell?
  • ProDave
    ProDave Posts: 3,785 Forumite
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    Ask to see their waste carriers licence that allows them to transport waste in their vans from site to this skip.

    If they don't have one, inform the council.
  • As above, a polite conversation with them advising the stuff often blows into your garden and ask if they would consider covering it.

    They know what they are doing so they know full well you could make a complaint but ultimately this should be a last resort considering they live next door.


  • TBagpuss
    TBagpuss Posts: 11,236 Forumite
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    ProDave said:
    Ask to see their waste carriers licence that allows them to transport waste in their vans from site to this skip.

    If they don't have one, inform the council.
    Isn't it possible to check online if they have a licence without having to ask them? If you know their name / the name of the business? than you can decide whether to make an anonymous report or not. 
    All posts are my personal opinion, not formal advice Always get proper, professional advice (particularly about anything legal!)
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