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House starting to fall apart around elderly mum..

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  • Bendy_House
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    Is her actual LOCATION pretty much spot on? And could she AFFORD to buy a more modern bungalow in the same area?
  • TELLIT01
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    Is her actual LOCATION pretty much spot on? And could she AFFORD to buy a more modern bungalow in the same area?

    Nice idea in theory, but in our area a 2 bed bungalow in good condition will cost considerably more than a 3 bed house in poor condition.  It probably won't be practical to move until the house is fixed because of the reduced price as it is.
  • Bendy_House
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    TELLIT01 said:
    Is her actual LOCATION pretty much spot on? And could she AFFORD to buy a more modern bungalow in the same area?

    Nice idea in theory, but in our area a 2 bed bungalow in good condition will cost considerably more than a 3 bed house in poor condition.  It probably won't be practical to move until the house is fixed because of the reduced price as it is.

    Very possibly. Hence me asking.
    It's surely one of things that should be looked at? Even a one-bed. Even a flat - on the ground floor. Just any alternative to a 3-bed house in seemingly tatty condition.
  • joho said:
    Well there are a couple of options:
    She moves somewhere smaller, newer, easier to maintain etc. as close to where she is as possible.
    She moves in with us. But we are 200 miles away and she has my brother and 2 grandchildren very nearby. It would be a big wrench as she takes the grandkids to and from school etc. I don't think she could move in with them. 
    She gets some money to do the works, whether that be mortgage, loan or equity release.
    Someone wins the lottery!
    Where does your brother come into this? Practically he is in a better position to help, including commissioning the repair work. He needs to do his bit, it can't be all take.
    No man is worth crawling on this earth.

    So much to read, so little time.
  • joho
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    edited 23 March 2022 at 1:50PM
    joho said:
    Well there are a couple of options:
    She moves somewhere smaller, newer, easier to maintain etc. as close to where she is as possible.
    She moves in with us. But we are 200 miles away and she has my brother and 2 grandchildren very nearby. It would be a big wrench as she takes the grandkids to and from school etc. I don't think she could move in with them. 
    She gets some money to do the works, whether that be mortgage, loan or equity release.
    Someone wins the lottery!
    Where does your brother come into this? Practically he is in a better position to help, including commissioning the repair work. He needs to do his bit, it can't be all take.
    Steady on! Where does it say he is doing any taking? 

    I started this thread for a bit of advice or direction on getting help with grants. That was all. 

    How do I close this thread now? I'm done with it.
    If you have nothing constructive to say just move along.
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