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Buyers want to reduce price of house - house valuation gone up.

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  • gingercordial
    gingercordial Posts: 1,681 Forumite
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    martindow said:
    julicorn said:
    Another amusing example of a person defending that position pretty unsuccessfully:



    Not to mention licence.

    I think the battle regarding the use of their to avoid the awkwardness of he/she or his/her is well on the way to being lost.  Language changes and now very few people worry about split infinitives or whether to use shall or will to form the future tense, for instance.


    To be fair, I think the Twitter user is American, and they do spell the noun form as "license" over there.
  • TripleH
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    @julicorn it's taken me this long to master English, my brain hurts when it sees something that it says doesn't look right. I think it was a newspaper article I read about Sam Smith that didn't make sense when I read it.
    Although it does make some sense to recycle words than create a new one. 
    May you find your sister soon Helli.
    Sleep well.
  • Lavendyr
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    GUZZI81 said:
    I apologise in advance I'm dyslexic, we  placed a  property for sale on a Wednesday and accepted  the asking price  on the Monday  basically because  its to a cash buyer  no chain involved on both  sides,  we could have  probably  have gotten more  if we had waited,  but  we are both  happy  making  £50k on  the house  price  was valued  back in February , plus as I have said  its a cash buyer so it should  go through  in 8 weeks for the sale. 
    Hello, it sounds like you are in a good position but despite being a cash buyer, there are still delays. The main delay for us was in obtaining local authority searches as they were overwhelmed with other requests. All best wishes. 
  • Ath_Wat
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    TripleH said:
    @julicorn it's taken me this long to master English, my brain hurts when it sees something that it says doesn't look right. I think it was a newspaper article I read about Sam Smith that didn't make sense when I read it.
    Although it does make some sense to recycle words than create a new one. 
    Using "they" when you are talking about some non specified person you don't know has been standard forever.

    "Someone has dropped litter here, I wish they hadn't"

    No native English speaker should find that at all odd. Extending that to using it when you do know the person you are referring to shouldn't be too much of a stretch.
  • GDB2222
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    Ath_Wat said:
    TripleH said:
    @julicorn it's taken me this long to master English, my brain hurts when it sees something that it says doesn't look right. I think it was a newspaper article I read about Sam Smith that didn't make sense when I read it.
    Although it does make some sense to recycle words than create a new one. 
    Using "they" when you are talking about some non specified person you don't know has been standard forever.

    "Someone has dropped litter here, I wish they hadn't"

    No native English speaker should find that at all odd. Extending that to using it when you do know the person you are referring to shouldn't be too much of a stretch.
    If you don’t know who dropped litter, it could be one person, or several. There’s a massive difference between that and knowing that you are talking about a single individual. 


    No reliance should be placed on the above! Absolutely none, do you hear?
  • canaldumidi
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    I had an ex years ago who always used 'they' when discussing her friends. "We went to X because they'd never been there before..."
    Took me a long time to realise it was because she didn't want me to know if she'd been out with a girl or boy friend....

  • Ath_Wat
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    GDB2222 said:
    Ath_Wat said:
    TripleH said:
    @julicorn it's taken me this long to master English, my brain hurts when it sees something that it says doesn't look right. I think it was a newspaper article I read about Sam Smith that didn't make sense when I read it.
    Although it does make some sense to recycle words than create a new one. 
    Using "they" when you are talking about some non specified person you don't know has been standard forever.

    "Someone has dropped litter here, I wish they hadn't"

    No native English speaker should find that at all odd. Extending that to using it when you do know the person you are referring to shouldn't be too much of a stretch.
    If you don’t know who dropped litter, it could be one person, or several. There’s a massive difference between that and knowing that you are talking about a single individual. 


    "The planning officer is calling at 3 but they might be a bit late"

    That's problematic for you?  What pronoun would you use if you actually don't know what gender a person is because you have no name and have never met them?  You can say "he or she" of course but "they" is perfectly common and has been for years.
  • GDB2222
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    Ath_Wat said:
    GDB2222 said:
    Ath_Wat said:
    TripleH said:
    @julicorn it's taken me this long to master English, my brain hurts when it sees something that it says doesn't look right. I think it was a newspaper article I read about Sam Smith that didn't make sense when I read it.
    Although it does make some sense to recycle words than create a new one. 
    Using "they" when you are talking about some non specified person you don't know has been standard forever.

    "Someone has dropped litter here, I wish they hadn't"

    No native English speaker should find that at all odd. Extending that to using it when you do know the person you are referring to shouldn't be too much of a stretch.
    If you don’t know who dropped litter, it could be one person, or several. There’s a massive difference between that and knowing that you are talking about a single individual. 


    "The planning officer is calling at 3 but they might be a bit late"

    That's problematic for you?  What pronoun would you use if you actually don't know what gender a person is because you have no name and have never met them?  You can say "he or she" of course but "they" is perfectly common and has been for years.
    If you say 'they', I will lay in some extra chocolate bikkies as there must be a small team coming round. Your example doesn’t need a pronoun, anyway! :)
    No reliance should be placed on the above! Absolutely none, do you hear?
  • My English is rubbish but I've always been good at maths. Sometimes in the past people have corrected me because my accent made it worse. However I could also shut them up quite quickly if I started talking numbers.
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