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Working away - buying first home to stay in through week

Hubby commutes around an hour to work each way and with rising fuel costs is costing £400 a month.
We currently live in beautiful rented accommodation and although we have savings we cannot afford to buy a similar property and don’t want to leave the area we are in (children settled, my business is here)
We have discussed the option of us buying a cheaper property (around 70-80k) where hubby works and him living in it through the week. The mortgage repayments would actually be less than he is paying in fuel (I’m aware there are obviously other costs such as bills but we are looking at this as an investment as interest on savings is limited anyway) it also has added benefits that he can work longer hours, is closer if he needs to go in unexpectedly etc.
How would this work in terms of lenders and mortgages? Is it something they are likely to allow us to do even though it’s not our permanent residence? We can prove we have enough excess income to cover the mortgage and bills etc.
To add, we are both self employed but hubby will be working in that location for at least the next three years (has contracts to prove) and probably longer term than that. One additional option is that he also rents out a room in the property to other people he works with who currently commute. If we did that would we need a buy to let mortgage? (we are happy not to do this if it makes things more complex as I understand it’s difficult to get a buy to let without first owning your own home but on the other hand having a lodger might prove we can cover the extra payments easier)
Also, I don’t know if it will have an impact but to add, we live in Scotland but would be looking at buying in England.
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You wouldn’t need a btl mortgage as it would be classed as a lodger not a tenant.Sounds a decent idea however do you really not wanna see your partner Monday to friday every week0
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willow2022 said:
We have discussed the option of us buying a cheaper property (around 70-80k) where hubby works and him living in it through the week. The mortgage repayments would actually be less than he is paying in fuel (I’m aware there are obviously other costs such as bills but we are looking at this as an investment as interest on savings is limited anyway) it also has added benefits that he can work longer hours, is closer if he needs to go in unexpectedly etc.
willow2022 said:How would this work in terms of lenders and mortgages? Is it something they are likely to allow us to do even though it’s not our permanent residence?
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We did this in 2011 unfortunately it ended with my husband finding himself a new girlfriend Monday to Friday as well and we got divorced in 201312
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SuseOrm said:We did this in 2011 unfortunately it ended with my husband finding himself a new girlfriend Monday to Friday as well and we got divorced in 20132
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Surely £400 a month and an hour commute (not great but actually that bad) is worth the price of spending your life with your husband (and vice versa) and not just the weekends - at which point he will still have some commute and petrol costs? What is it you want to achieve and start from there?... are you looking at this as as an investment / something to have as a BTL in the future? There will be financial implications if you later want to buy your own second home. I'm sure youve already considered this but is there any option for him to wfh a day or to a week?1
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MEM62 said:willow2022 said:
We have discussed the option of us buying a cheaper property (around 70-80k) where hubby works and him living in it through the week. The mortgage repayments would actually be less than he is paying in fuel (I’m aware there are obviously other costs such as bills but we are looking at this as an investment as interest on savings is limited anyway) it also has added benefits that he can work longer hours, is closer if he needs to go in unexpectedly etc.
willow2022 said:How would this work in terms of lenders and mortgages? Is it something they are likely to allow us to do even though it’s not our permanent residence?
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If he's communting by car it sounds like you need an electric vehicle?
The cost per day for a 100 mile commute would be around £2 for me in my electric car (£40 a month) - appreciate electric prices are going up but even if it doubled to £4 that would be £80 a month.0 -
willow2022 said:
Also, I don’t know if it will have an impact but to add, we live in Scotland but would be looking at buying in England.
This is far from the mortgage/home-buying part of the question, but bear in mind there are different income tax rates for Scotland versus England, and if he stays in both he will have to convince HMRC of which is his "main home" for those purposes too (and the tests/answer may not be the same for this as for other matters). See the example here:
https://www.gov.uk/guidance/work-out-if-youll-pay-the-scottish-rate-of-income-tax#if-you-have-more-than-one-home-at-the-same-time
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Sweetnut said:If he's communting by car it sounds like you need an electric vehicle?
The cost per day for a 100 mile commute would be around £2 for me in my electric car (£40 a month) - appreciate electric prices are going up but even if it doubled to £4 that would be £80 a month.I'm going to hazard a guess that said hours commute is 100 miles a day, 25k a year (taking into account husband doesn't use it at weekends) so 25k.Cheapest EV I can find based on that mileage is an e208 for just short of £500 a month on a 9+36 (so £4.5k deposit).Alternatively, it's £28k OTR. After 4 years, it'll be worthless with 100k on the clock.1 -
The mortgage may be cheaper than the £400/month on fuel but also (somewhat finger in the air figures) -
Council Tax - assuming Band A with 25% single person discount - £85
Gas/Electric/Water - £60 (Ok this might be quite low!)
Still travelling back at weekends so 1/5 of the £400 - £80
Contents/Buildings Insurance - £10
That would leave £165/month for mortgage and will be less if a flat due to service charges.
And you'll have to furnish it, carry out any repairs needed etc.
Sounds like a good idea in principle but have you fully thought it through?
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