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Abusive ex / Maintenance

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  • Some, not all abuse was reported. I have photos and info which I sent to friend that is date/time stamped. 

    It's absolutely irrelevant to the maintainance but the way he is behaving with maintenance is controlling if that makes sense 

    Solicitor letter is being written next week 
  • Savvy_Sue
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    Some, not all abuse was reported. I have photos and info which I sent to friend that is date/time stamped. 

    It's absolutely irrelevant to the maintainance but the way he is behaving with maintenance is controlling if that makes sense 

    Solicitor letter is being written next week 
    Oh that absolutely makes sense. After all, if he just paid what he is supposed to, you'd be able to spend it in all sorts of ways, without any control from him. Whereas by withholding it, you haven't got it to spend, and you are forced to think about him and respond to his ridiculous claims. 

    I hope the solicitor's letter has effect ... 
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