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Building rear extension. Is the neighbour reasonable?

Hi everyone!

We're currently looking to build a rear extension as our living space is too small for our needs. We live in a share of freehold flat and have freehold on the garden.
Now, in order to grant us permission the neighbours sharing the freehold are asking us to change their windows due to safety concerns. In an effort to address their concerns we changed the plans several times, offered to build a higher fence, offered to buy security cameras etc. the neighbours are still adamant they wouldn't feel safe. Is it reasonable you are expected to pay >10k to get the sign off? Our extension won't restrict the right of light nor affect their privacy.
At this point in time paying the extra 10k would put a huge pressure on us given the fact the building costs doubled since Covid.

I just wonder if this is a battle worth fighting for. Do I continue throwing money at the issue or limit my losses and move on?
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  • canaldumidi
    canaldumidi Posts: 3,511
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    Alice05 said:
    Hi everyone!

    We're currently looking to build a rear extension as our living space is too small for our needs. We live in a share of freehold flat and have freehold on the garden.

    Build on your own land.
    Bit unclear what the 'security concerns' are.
  • Slinky
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    Are they saying there's the potential for somebody to climb on your roof and get in through their windows?
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  • Alice05
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    Apparently someone could climb on our extension and reach their flat. 

    On a separate note we have a clause in our lease that specifically states that we cannot make any alterations to the outside walls without their consent.
  • Alice05
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    Slinky said:
    Are they saying there's the potential for somebody to climb on your roof and get in through their windows?
    Correct. 
  • Slinky
    Slinky Posts: 12,048
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    Probably easier and cheaper to look for a more suitable property to move to unless you see this as your forever home.
    Make £2026 in 2026
    Prolific £231.51, Octopoints £4.60, Tesco Clubcard challenges £38.80, Airtime £10 TCB £225.19, Everup £77.04, Roadkill £1.77,  Zopa CB £30, Misc £10.11,
    Total £629.02  31%

    Make £2025 in 2025  Total £2241.23/£2025 110.7%
    Prolific £1062.50, Octopoints £6.64, TCB £492.05, Tesco Clubcard challenges £89.90, Misc Sales £321, Airtime £70, Shopmium £53.06, Everup £106.08, Zopa CB £30, Misc survey £10

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  • Slinky
    Slinky Posts: 12,048
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    Just another thought, would offering to build your footings deep enough that they could extend their flat on top of yours at some point in the future do the trick? Even if they didn't want to do it themselves, it could make their property more attractive to a future purchaser.
    Make £2026 in 2026
    Prolific £231.51, Octopoints £4.60, Tesco Clubcard challenges £38.80, Airtime £10 TCB £225.19, Everup £77.04, Roadkill £1.77,  Zopa CB £30, Misc £10.11,
    Total £629.02  31%

    Make £2025 in 2025  Total £2241.23/£2025 110.7%
    Prolific £1062.50, Octopoints £6.64, TCB £492.05, Tesco Clubcard challenges £89.90, Misc Sales £321, Airtime £70, Shopmium £53.06, Everup £106.08, Zopa CB £30, Misc survey £10

    Make £2024 in 2024 Total £1410 70%
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  • Alice05
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    Slinky said:
    Just another thought, would offering to build your footings deep enough that they could extend their flat on top of yours at some point in the future do the trick? Even if they didn't want to do it themselves, it could make their property more attractive to a future purchaser.
    We vaguely discussed that with them, they were not interested in doing it themselves, however we haven't pointed that will make the property more attractive to a future purchaser - we'll try that. 
    Thank you Slinky! 
  • Slinky
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    Of course there's a downside that it could devalue your property for a future purchaser of yours who don't want the upstairs building on top....  always assuming they could get permission for something that may block light to the neighbours more than your single storey will.
    Make £2026 in 2026
    Prolific £231.51, Octopoints £4.60, Tesco Clubcard challenges £38.80, Airtime £10 TCB £225.19, Everup £77.04, Roadkill £1.77,  Zopa CB £30, Misc £10.11,
    Total £629.02  31%

    Make £2025 in 2025  Total £2241.23/£2025 110.7%
    Prolific £1062.50, Octopoints £6.64, TCB £492.05, Tesco Clubcard challenges £89.90, Misc Sales £321, Airtime £70, Shopmium £53.06, Everup £106.08, Zopa CB £30, Misc survey £10

    Make £2024 in 2024 Total £1410 70%
    Make £2023 in 2023 Total: £2606.33 128.8%


  • lincroft1710
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    Slinky said:
    Just another thought, would offering to build your footings deep enough that they could extend their flat on top of yours at some point in the future do the trick? Even if they didn't want to do it themselves, it could make their property more attractive to a future purchaser.
    When I had a single storey extension built 14 yrs ago, the footings had to be deep enough for a 2 storey extension in order to comply with Building Regs. I would imagine the Regs haven't changed in this respect.
    If you are querying your Council Tax band would you please state whether you are in England, Scotland or Wales
  • Alice05
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    Slinky said:
    Of course there's a downside that it could devalue your property for a future purchaser of yours who don't want the upstairs building on top....  always assuming they could get permission for something that may block light to the neighbours more than your single storey will.
    I was going to book couple of valuations from estate agents, I also ask what effect will this have from a buyers point of view.
    Thanks! 
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