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Getting children on property ladder

Poppy78_2
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Advice sought on supporting offspring with getting on the property ladder in a way that supports responsibility for young adult and minimises risk for parents. We have very little money but want to try support in some creative way.
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Encourage them to save from a young age and be responsible with their funds is the best way.
Kids who don't know the value of money or respect it won't save or appreciate its value.
You don't say how old your offspring are but I'm not sure there are many creative ways
A windfall from inheritance gifted down from parents can help but I wouldn't suggest this over ensuring your own security.
They don't have to own a house as a young adult
Other options you could look at spring board mortgages Barclays used to do one. No idea if they still do.5 -
I brought 3 kids to be self-sufficient, and earn enough to survive without me.
Best lesson you can give.6 -
Why does the method have to be "creative"? Assuming they need a mortgage, there aren't really many methods. Reducing risk for you means not being a guarantor or a joint owner. If they are deemed by lenders to be able to afford the mortgage payments, that would suggest they don't need your help with those (unless something unexpected happens down the line).
Which leaves you with helping them with the deposit, and lenders will generally only accept gifts for that. Which at least means you know how much money you're waving goodbye to.
Or of course you could help them with the other costs involved in buying the property (professional fees, buying furniture, renovation etc).0 -
theartfullodger said:I brought 3 kids to be self-sufficient, and earn enough to survive without me.
Best lesson you can give.30th June 2021 completely debt free…. Downsized, reduced working hours and living the dream.7 -
These days most children buy with significant help from their parents, in the order of £25k.
https://inews.co.uk/news/parents-children-mortgage-lenders-buy-houses-property-330778
If you can't provide that, and there is no chance of significant inheritance, then you will need to get creative.
Some areas are cheaper, but only because there are not the good jobs there. You might get lucky and find an up-and-coming area.
Saving is obviously a good idea, but it's unlikely to be enough on its own. It's a very difficult situation, especially if you have three kids.0 -
not sure how old they are, but had I started saving when I got my first job, buying would have never been an issue, not even with today's ridiculous prices. even on a low salary (<£30k), you can save a 5% deposit on a half a million pounds property in several years. saving for a bit longer, getting a partner or simply earning a bit more means you can get things done even quicker.teach them how to be financially literate and understand how money works and everything will be fine.0
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aoleks said:not sure how old they are, but had I started saving when I got my first job, buying would have never been an issue, not even with today's ridiculous prices. even on a low salary (<£30k), you can save a 5% deposit on a half a million pounds property in several years. saving for a bit longer, getting a partner or simply earning a bit more means you can get things done even quicker.teach them how to be financially literate and understand how money works and everything will be fine.
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aoleks said:not sure how old they are, but had I started saving when I got my first job, buying would have never been an issue, not even with today's ridiculous prices. even on a low salary (<£30k), you can save a 5% deposit on a half a million pounds property in several years. saving for a bit longer, getting a partner or simply earning a bit more means you can get things done even quicker.teach them how to be financially literate and understand how money works and everything will be fine.
Even with a partner on a similar salary with a similar deposit you're still looking at £320k property purchase price, and that's before you even consider stamp duty, conveyancing costs, survey, furniture, appliances, moving fees and potential work needed to property.2 -
Poppy78_2 said:Advice sought on supporting offspring with getting on the property ladder in a way that supports responsibility for young adult and minimises risk for parents. We have very little money but want to try support in some creative way.Get them used to the fact that they don't have to have everything brand new, top of the range, designer labelled.4
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theartfullodger said:I brought 3 kids to be self-sufficient, and earn enough to survive without me.
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