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This time I really don't think I can go on ...........

Dumb_Blonde_3
Dumb_Blonde_3 Posts: 238 Forumite
in Debt-free wannabe
I'm fed up - I can't do it anymore - I really can't - I don't know what to do
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  • squirrel_pigeon
    squirrel_pigeon Posts: 427 Forumite
    What's up?
    All comments made and advice given are my own opinions and do not represent the views or advice of any debt advice organisation.

    Current balance: approx £17500 including Tax Credit Overpayment :cry:

    Estimated DFD: never - deficit budget. Cheers HMRC! :mad:

    Another year over and we're still together. It's not always easy, but I'm here forever
  • MidlandsMum
    MidlandsMum Posts: 389 Forumite
    Me too, babe. Go and grab a cuppa and let's count our blessings.
  • mrsspendalot
    mrsspendalot Posts: 3,238 Forumite
    There isn't anything that can't be sorted out ...... get it off your chest on here and see if we can't help you find a solution xx
    Olympic Countdown Challenge #145 ~ DFW Nerd #389 ~ Debt Free Date: [STRIKE]December 2015[/STRIKE] September 2015

    :j BabySpendalot arrived 26/6/11 :j
  • smithywilko
    smithywilko Posts: 114 Forumite
    There's always a way to work it out, no matter how bad it gets. Share your worries here and we can all try and help you to work through it..
    Make £5 a day challenge - February £54.28/£140
    To help pay off 0% CC debt - 27.1.15 £7367.12
    Mortgage deposit savings £2501.00/£15,000
  • sarah1975uk
    sarah1975uk Posts: 608 Forumite
    aww whats the matter sweetie? Problems shared are problems halved ;) infact so many wonderful helpful people on this site could even help get rid of whats upsetting you?;)
    :T This site is great! Thanks to Martin Lewis & everyone who participates and helps so many people! Without you all, where would we be ??:T

    :A The days are long, but the years are short! Cherish every moment, you blink that moment is gone forever :sad: :A
  • doodlehumlucysmum
    doodlehumlucysmum Posts: 127 Forumite
    Aww I hope you can. I've worked out that i earn less then i spend but have been telling all my friends that i am now a MSE. I'm not too sure if it is a realistic idea that i will but it is the people on this website who have made me think that it is atleast woth a try.

    I'm new to this so not that knowledgable but it does appear that there are lots of nice people here to give advice. just keep trying.
    One day, I AM going to be out of debt. I'm just not sure when.
    MSE to do's: new mobile contract, get contents insurance, get a better paid job!
    Ebay March challange - £15
  • squirrel_pigeon
    squirrel_pigeon Posts: 427 Forumite
    Ok - first step is to post a SOA (check out the sticky at the top of the board for tips). Then people will be able to give you some advice on how to move forward. Don't worry (easier said than done, I know). You've come to the right place :)
    All comments made and advice given are my own opinions and do not represent the views or advice of any debt advice organisation.

    Current balance: approx £17500 including Tax Credit Overpayment :cry:

    Estimated DFD: never - deficit budget. Cheers HMRC! :mad:

    Another year over and we're still together. It's not always easy, but I'm here forever
  • LJD1_2
    LJD1_2 Posts: 2,173 Forumite
    There's lots of people on here who'll help if you let them. I felt just like you're feeling now when I first came on here and I got through it all. Hugs to you xx
    January budget
    Nothing left!
  • Burlesque_Babe
    Burlesque_Babe Posts: 17,547 Forumite
    Part of the Furniture Photogenic Combo Breaker
    Hi DB (I never like to call you Dumb as I know you're not)

    .......is it your car? I know it was causing you problems a few days back.
    :D"Stay Wonky":D

    :j:jBecome Mrs Pepe 9 October 2012 :j:j
  • Dumb_Blonde_3
    Dumb_Blonde_3 Posts: 238 Forumite
    Okay a few things ..............

    First off I have a 2 year old son that really is a 2 year old - he's just so naughty ...............

    But the worst thing is i got a message from my cousin that works in the entertainment inustry (i used to before husband and son came along) and he told me that the holiday camp I used to work on(Harcourt sands Puckpool Park , Rhyde, Isle of Wight) had been burnt down to the ground ........... stupidly I looked it up ............ I feel so sick that I can't even breathe .................... I can't believe it - my life life/memories gone ... its so awful
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