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Power of Attorney (my Dad)
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I figured that's what POA was? Effectively controlling his money? Access to his banking, ability to make decisions (who when and how much to pay on his behalf), and also inheriting whatever is left when he passes?
The POA cases the second dad breathes his last breath.
What happens thereafter depends on whether he has a will or not.If you've have not made a mistake, you've made nothing0 -
I think the certificate provider would be your father. And the witnesses are whomever co-signs to say they know your father and you and that they've seen you sign the documents. Has to be someone not in the family as I recall - whether your fiancé could do it may or may not be an issue but obviously she can't if she's to also hold POA.
If your father or you isn't happy about the fiancé having POA is there a cousin, trusted neighbour? Just as backup.
ALSO - I have third party access to one of my MiL's bank accounts. That means I can deal with almost anything to do with this account short of shut it down. So make payments, call the bank etc. You might want to ensure that you have that even if the POA is delayed. And realistically....I do the finances for the household. OH & MiL have some joint accounts. Neither of them do online banking but I do and so (rightly or wrongly, more likely the last) access their accounts online, move money on their behalf. All it takes is ensure you have the logons and passwords.I’m a Forum Ambassador and I support the Forum Team on Debt Free Wannabe, Old Style Money Saving and Pensions boards. If you need any help on these boards, do let me know. Please note that Ambassadors are not moderators. Any posts you spot in breach of the Forum Rules should be reported via the report button, or by emailing forumteam@moneysavingexpert.com. All views are my own and not the official line of MoneySavingExpert.
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Brie said:I think the certificate provider would be your father. And the witnesses are whomever co-signs to say they know your father and you and that they've seen you sign the documents. Has to be someone not in the family as I recall - whether your fiancé could do it may or may not be an issue but obviously she can't if she's to also hold POA.
If your father or you isn't happy about the fiancé having POA is there a cousin, trusted neighbour? Just as backup.
ALSO - I have third party access to one of my MiL's bank accounts. That means I can deal with almost anything to do with this account short of shut it down. So make payments, call the bank etc. You might want to ensure that you have that even if the POA is delayed. And realistically....I do the finances for the household. OH & MiL have some joint accounts. Neither of them do online banking but I do and so (rightly or wrongly, more likely the last) access their accounts online, move money on their behalf. All it takes is ensure you have the logons and passwords.
I read that the "certificate person" should be someone unrelated to myself (the attorney) and the donor, but CAN also act as the witness.
Can anyone corroborate this?0 -
https://publicguardian.blog.gov.uk/2021/08/26/creating-an-lpa-frequently-asked-questions/
The certificate provider can be a witness, but is definitely neither the donor nor the attorney.Signature removed for peace of mind1 -
Savvy_Sue said:https://publicguardian.blog.gov.uk/2021/08/26/creating-an-lpa-frequently-asked-questions/
The certificate provider can be a witness, but is definitely neither the donor nor the attorney.0
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