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Power of Attorney (my Dad)
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RAS said:If you are married, it might be worth asking dad if your partner could also be the second attorney? We ended up with one child and one in-law (who delegated most of the actual running around to anther child).0
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proformance said:RAS said:If you are married, it might be worth asking dad if your partner could also be the second attorney? We ended up with one child and one in-law (who delegated most of the actual running around to anther child).
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If you only appoint one, and that one cannot act for any reason - death, serious illness etc- then there is no provision for anyone else to act. Someone would have to apply to court of protection unless a new LPA was made.Signature removed for peace of mind1
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proformance said:Malthusian said:To echo the above, Lasting Power of Attorney forms are extremely straightforward. They don't need to be any more complicated than inserting the names of the attorneys (preferably at least two), the donor, the certificate provider, and signing in the right order. Register them with the OPG as soon as they are finished; if you have made a mistake that makes the LPOA invalid, they will send them back.LPOAs only get complicated when people imagine they need to second-guess their attorneys and include all sorts of wishes and instructions. For most people these are unnecessary at best (and harmful at worst) and the "preferences" and "instructions" sections can simply be left blank.If your father is short of money he should definitely make LPOAs as otherwise the Court of Protection will be in charge if he loses capacity, which is much more expensive and incredibly slow. If he has very little money he may also be eligible for a refund of the £82 fee.
There is nobody else who would make decisions on his behalf other than me.
We don't have an attorney. Do we need to hire one for this?1 -
proformance said:RAS said:If you are married, it might be worth asking dad if your partner could also be the second attorney? We ended up with one child and one in-law (who delegated most of the actual running around to anther child).
And because the donor recognised that the other attorney had skills and knowledge in areas I lacked, trusted them, and it was their decision. Crucially we get on well.If you've have not made a mistake, you've made nothing1 -
I like the rationale. I'm not married though, only engages. Would it be OK?
Also, if there are any debts that he has, that we don't know baoit it, would those effect us in anyway?
Think my fiancé would be uncomfortable with that.0 -
It is essential you keep your finances and dad's finances entirely separate. You'd be helping look after his interests, and acting on his behalf if that becomes necessary. Not taking over his finances. So there is no risk of financial penalty if he has debts.
Regarding your fiance, that entirely dad's decision.If you've have not made a mistake, you've made nothing0 -
RAS said:It is essential you keep your finances and dad's finances entirely separate. You'd be helping look after his interests, and acting on his behalf if that becomes necessary. Not taking over his finances. So there is no risk of financial penalty if he has debts.
Regarding your fiance, that entirely dad's decision.
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proformance said:RAS said:It is essential you keep your finances and dad's finances entirely separate. You'd be helping look after his interests, and acting on his behalf if that becomes necessary. Not taking over his finances. So there is no risk of financial penalty if he has debts.
Regarding your fiance, that entirely dad's decision.1 -
Stuck already.. What's the difference between the "certificate provider" and the "witnesses"?0
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