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Power of Attorney (my Dad)
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Thanks. What's the benefit in doing this, as opposed to it being just me?RAS said:If you are married, it might be worth asking dad if your partner could also be the second attorney? We ended up with one child and one in-law (who delegated most of the actual running around to anther child).0 -
Because if you aren't able to act for him then the POA would be useless.proformance said:
Thanks. What's the benefit in doing this, as opposed to it being just me?RAS said:If you are married, it might be worth asking dad if your partner could also be the second attorney? We ended up with one child and one in-law (who delegated most of the actual running around to anther child).
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If you only appoint one, and that one cannot act for any reason - death, serious illness etc- then there is no provision for anyone else to act. Someone would have to apply to court of protection unless a new LPA was made.Signature removed for peace of mind1
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Attorney in this case refers the person the donor (your father) appoints to act for them (you) not someone you pay to set up an LPA which you don’t require.proformance said:
He has very little disposable income and a modest sum in a pension fund (less than £15k).Malthusian said:To echo the above, Lasting Power of Attorney forms are extremely straightforward. They don't need to be any more complicated than inserting the names of the attorneys (preferably at least two), the donor, the certificate provider, and signing in the right order. Register them with the OPG as soon as they are finished; if you have made a mistake that makes the LPOA invalid, they will send them back.LPOAs only get complicated when people imagine they need to second-guess their attorneys and include all sorts of wishes and instructions. For most people these are unnecessary at best (and harmful at worst) and the "preferences" and "instructions" sections can simply be left blank.If your father is short of money he should definitely make LPOAs as otherwise the Court of Protection will be in charge if he loses capacity, which is much more expensive and incredibly slow. If he has very little money he may also be eligible for a refund of the £82 fee.
There is nobody else who would make decisions on his behalf other than me.
We don't have an attorney. Do we need to hire one for this?1 -
Because if you are on holiday, fall ill, or are incapacitated in any way, the other attorney take action or make decisions. It meant I could go off-grid for a week knowing there was a back-stop.proformance said:
Thanks. What's the benefit in doing this, as opposed to it being just me?RAS said:If you are married, it might be worth asking dad if your partner could also be the second attorney? We ended up with one child and one in-law (who delegated most of the actual running around to anther child).
And because the donor recognised that the other attorney had skills and knowledge in areas I lacked, trusted them, and it was their decision. Crucially we get on well.If you've have not made a mistake, you've made nothing1 -
I like the rationale. I'm not married though, only engages. Would it be OK?
Also, if there are any debts that he has, that we don't know baoit it, would those effect us in anyway?
Think my fiancé would be uncomfortable with that.0 -
It is essential you keep your finances and dad's finances entirely separate. You'd be helping look after his interests, and acting on his behalf if that becomes necessary. Not taking over his finances. So there is no risk of financial penalty if he has debts.
Regarding your fiance, that entirely dad's decision.If you've have not made a mistake, you've made nothing0 -
I figured that's what POA was? Effectively controlling his money? Access to his banking, ability to make decisions (who when and how much to pay on his behalf), and also inheriting whatever is left when he passes?RAS said:It is essential you keep your finances and dad's finances entirely separate. You'd be helping look after his interests, and acting on his behalf if that becomes necessary. Not taking over his finances. So there is no risk of financial penalty if he has debts.
Regarding your fiance, that entirely dad's decision.
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Ha ha, I like that, POA inherits what’s left. POA ceases on death of your father. Whoever inherits is what his will says.proformance said:
I figured that's what POA was? Effectively controlling his money? Access to his banking, ability to make decisions (who when and how much to pay on his behalf), and also inheriting whatever is left when he passes?RAS said:It is essential you keep your finances and dad's finances entirely separate. You'd be helping look after his interests, and acting on his behalf if that becomes necessary. Not taking over his finances. So there is no risk of financial penalty if he has debts.
Regarding your fiance, that entirely dad's decision.1 -
Stuck already.. What's the difference between the "certificate provider" and the "witnesses"?0
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