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Maliciously stopping sale of house

Can a neighbour having made a verbal agreement in 2012,  make no complaint, then  maliciously invent a "dispute" to stop sale of my house?  Over past 4 months I have proved neighbour's claims are FALSE. But neighbour now complaining a few centimetres of gutter overhangs so I still cant remarket my house. And neighbour is stopping any resolution by aggressively refusing access to stop that getting fixed.

I can prove this is being done spitefully, to hurt me. I can't talk to neighbour - now can't trust a word said, twists facts, is enjoying making me suffer
Any advice please?
What can I do? 
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  • ashe
    ashe Posts: 1,574 Forumite
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    I believe legally they must allow access for you to maintain your property 
  • AFF8879
    AFF8879 Posts: 656 Forumite
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    edited 2 September 2021 at 10:52AM
    Why is this stopping you from selling your house? Do you mean you lost a buyer because you had to declare a dispute?

    I’d also be questioning your neighbour’s logic… if you have such a grudge against someone, surely you would be doing anything possible to help a sale, not prevent one 
  • Hi NDIS.
    Do you have Legal Protection included in your house insurance? Call them up for advice - and to sort this issue if needed.
  • Nasty letters sent to  me & Estage agent. I lost 2 transactions. I reported harassment to police, neighbour hiding behind badly informed solicitor. I can't solve invented "dispute" - neighbour demanding I pay legal expenses to get "dispute" off my back, & is deliberately stopping access so I'm stuck. I am still waiting for help via my insurer who are still dragging their heels 
  • eddddy
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    edited 2 September 2021 at 12:52PM


    I can prove this is being done spitefully, to hurt me. I can't talk to neighbour - now can't trust a word said, twists facts, is enjoying making me suffer
    Any advice please?
    What can I do? 

    Maybe try a different approach...

    Whilst your neighbour might be in the wrong, proving they're being spiteful will probably result in escalation into a bitter dispute (which you'd have to declare).


    Tactically, it might be better to re-open discussions by apologising for the inconvenience, and asking what your neighbour would like you to do to put it right (even though you haven't done anything wrong).

    Maybe even ask somebody else to open the discussions with your neighbour on your behalf. (And they can say things like: "the sooner the gutter issue is sorted out, the sooner they can sell and move out, and hopefully the new neighbours will be better" etc, etc. Just to get the problem sorted, so you can sell.)



    Edit to add...

    I've just seen that you've reported harassment to the police, and solicitors are involved.

    I guess it's too late to try to settle this amicably, without it turning into a dispute.

    TBH I think you'll now find it a big challenge to sell. It's hard to imagine who would buy a property with history of harassment complaints against a current neighbour. 

  • user1977
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    No legal reason why you can't sell, you just need to find a buyer who doesn't mind that your neighbour appears to be a bit of a nutter.
  • macman
    macman Posts: 53,129 Forumite
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    You can market whenever you wish, you simply need to declare the dispute. If there's never been any written correspondence directly between you, rather than to third parties, then it may not even count as  formal dispute.
    No free lunch, and no free laptop ;)
  • Jude57
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    I'm pretty sure that the questions asked during the conveyancing process are quite broad, so that a dispute doesn't have to be 'formal' in the sense of reporting to authorities or in writing. Others can probably link to the specific questions but I've seen it said here time after time, ANY dispute or cause for concern must be declared.
  • AdrianC
    AdrianC Posts: 42,189 Forumite
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    Your neighbour clearly likes living next door to you, and wants you to stay...
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