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Future Proofing my life: Deposit saving then MFW journey in under 13 years

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  • Cheery_Daff
    Cheery_Daff Posts: 17,121 Forumite
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    No overnight option, and we regularly do it in one day so no excuses really (it's 2.5 hours each way). Not how I'd ideally be spending Christmas but hey ho! 
  • savingholmes
    savingholmes Posts: 28,971 Forumite
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    We used to have a set couple of days when we saw Ex's family and then one day when we saw mine. If some of my family didn't turn up that day we refused to go back another day. That way we only saw family Xmas day 6 hours, boxing day less than 5 hours NY Day about 3-4 hours. 

    Definitely find a way to set clear boundaries.
    Achieve FIRE/Mortgage Neutrality in 2030
    1) MFW Nov 21 £202K now £174.8K Equity 32.77%
    2) £2.6K Net savings after CCs 6/7/25
    3) Mortgage neutral by 06/30 (AVC £24.3K + Lump Sums DB £4.6K + (25% of SIPP 1.2K) = 30.1/£127.5K target 23.6% 29/7/25
    4) FI Age 60 income target £16.5/30K 55.1%
    5) SIPP £4.8K updated 29/7/25
  • beanielou
    beanielou Posts: 95,510 Ambassador
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    Was it you who recommended Waitrose Prosecco? I can’t find it again. 
    Can you please share the links again. 
    Thanks. ☺️ 
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  • beanielou said:
    Was it you who recommended Waitrose Prosecco? I can’t find it again. 
    Can you please share the links again. 
    Thanks. ☺️ 
    It was me -  ;) 
    I love the rose one but the brut is also lovely - best prosecco I have tasted and I drink a lot of bubbles
    It has a funny fluted neck collar  thats how I know its right bubbles

    La Gioiosa Prosecco Rosé Millesimato Brut £10.99 at waitrose 

    but they often do down to £8.99


    I see the Brut version is now at tesco but may be slightly different - the fluted collar one (will dm you link) is the guaranteed one.

    The Waitrose and also Lidl cremant is v good as well 
    DON'T BUY STUFF (from Frugalwoods)
    No seriously, just don’t buy things. 99% of our success with our savings rate is attributed to the fact that we don’t buy things... You can and should take advantage of discounts.... But at the end of the day, the only way to truly save money is to not buy stuff.    Money doesn’t walk out of your wallet on its own accord.
    https://forums.moneysavingexpert.com/discussion/6289577/future-proofing-my-life-deposit-saving-then-mfw-journey-in-under-13-years#latest
  • savingholmes
    savingholmes Posts: 28,971 Forumite
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    Good you've been paid from one of your shifts.

    The side hustle convo sounds disappointing - but it sounds like you have a good advocate in your corner. Do definitely hold boundaries there too - as for me it would already be an Amber flag.
    Achieve FIRE/Mortgage Neutrality in 2030
    1) MFW Nov 21 £202K now £174.8K Equity 32.77%
    2) £2.6K Net savings after CCs 6/7/25
    3) Mortgage neutral by 06/30 (AVC £24.3K + Lump Sums DB £4.6K + (25% of SIPP 1.2K) = 30.1/£127.5K target 23.6% 29/7/25
    4) FI Age 60 income target £16.5/30K 55.1%
    5) SIPP £4.8K updated 29/7/25
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