We’d like to remind Forumites to please avoid political debate on the Forum.

This is to keep it a safe and useful space for MoneySaving discussions. Threads that are – or become – political in nature may be removed in line with the Forum’s rules. Thank you for your understanding.

📨 Have you signed up to the Forum's new Email Digest yet? Get a selection of trending threads sent straight to your inbox daily, weekly or monthly!

Getting people who owe me money to help pay my debts

2»

Comments

  • Dale72
    Dale72 Posts: 187 Forumite
    100 Posts Name Dropper
    Whether they are advisors or administrators, they are still the people who the poster needs to speak to, and no need to shut the forum down, it does have its uses, but taking a straw poll on whether your committing a crime or not shouldn't be one of them.
  • poppy12345
    poppy12345 Posts: 18,919 Forumite
    Part of the Furniture 10,000 Posts Name Dropper
    Dale72 said:
    Whether they are advisors or administrators, they are still the people who the poster needs to speak to,
    No they are not because as previously adviced, they are not benefit advisors and are not there to give benefit advice.
  • Spoonie_Turtle
    Spoonie_Turtle Posts: 10,654 Forumite
    10,000 Posts Sixth Anniversary Name Dropper
    Dale72 said:
    Whether they are advisors or administrators, they are still the people who the poster needs to speak to,
    No they are not because as previously adviced, they are not benefit advisors and are not there to give benefit advice.
    This exactly, and it sadly seems to be a common mistake people make and end up either confused or in real difficulty. 

    Time and again people come here having been given wrong advice because frontline DWP staff seem not to understand even the basic rules, often.  Yes the advice here is from anonymous people who *could* falsely claim to be this or that expert, but often sources are given with answers (especially for more complicated issues) that the person asking can check for themselves.  There hasn't been a source given on this thread because it's such a simple and obvious answer to anyone with experience of benefits, but when all of the answers from different people agree, almost unanimously, you can be pretty confident it's correct.
  • fuzexi
    fuzexi Posts: 40 Forumite
    Part of the Furniture 10 Posts Combo Breaker
    oh_really said:
    fuzexi said:
    One other question: if I borrow money from my parents to pay my solicitor, is that income too? 
    Why dont you have your parents settle the bill directly?
    Literally because my mum's debit card had expired, so she couldn't set up a new payment. So she sent it to me and I sent it on to the solicitor. It must have been in my bank less than a minute. As I see it, I haven't got that money available so spend, and I have children to look after, if they deduct that money then it's going to cause hardship. (two weeks ago I had a situation at the supermarket when I couldn't pay for my shopping) Makes me think that the system unintentionally (in some cases) can make it hard for people to stand on their own two feet again. 
  • poppy12345
    poppy12345 Posts: 18,919 Forumite
    Part of the Furniture 10,000 Posts Name Dropper
    fuzexi said:
    oh_really said:
    fuzexi said:
    One other question: if I borrow money from my parents to pay my solicitor, is that income too? 
    Why dont you have your parents settle the bill directly?
    Literally because my mum's debit card had expired, so she couldn't set up a new payment. So she sent it to me and I sent it on to the solicitor. It must have been in my bank less than a minute. As I see it, I haven't got that money available so spend, and I have children to look after, if they deduct that money then it's going to cause hardship. (two weeks ago I had a situation at the supermarket when I couldn't pay for my shopping) Makes me think that the system unintentionally (in some cases) can make it hard for people to stand on their own two feet again. 

    If the momney came from your mum then as advised, it's not income. If it came from work you had done then it's income which would need to be reported.
    Trying to survive on benefits definitely isn't easy and a lot of people will have found that out for theirselves since the pandemic started.
  • calcotti
    calcotti Posts: 15,696 Forumite
    Part of the Furniture 10,000 Posts Name Dropper
    A gift from your mother is not income and does not affect your benefits. That is not part of your original query which was about money owed to you for work you had done. This should be declared as earned income and will affect your benefits.
    Information I post is for England unless otherwise stated. Some rules may be different in other parts of UK.
Meet your Ambassadors

🚀 Getting Started

Hi new member!

Our Getting Started Guide will help you get the most out of the Forum

Categories

  • All Categories
  • 352.4K Banking & Borrowing
  • 253.7K Reduce Debt & Boost Income
  • 454.4K Spending & Discounts
  • 245.4K Work, Benefits & Business
  • 601.2K Mortgages, Homes & Bills
  • 177.6K Life & Family
  • 259.2K Travel & Transport
  • 1.5M Hobbies & Leisure
  • 16K Discuss & Feedback
  • 37.7K Read-Only Boards

Is this how you want to be seen?

We see you are using a default avatar. It takes only a few seconds to pick a picture.