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Unequal deposit - what happens after marriage?

My partner and I are looking to buy a home and our deposits are unequal, which we want reflected in the deeds of the house should anything go wrong.

What then happens if we get married down the line? Does the house revert to 50/50 ownership automatically? And in the hopefully unlikely event of any future divorce what would happen with the house?

We're both obviously looking to be together long term, hence the house purchase, but we're economically aware and want to make sure we're not in for any unwelcome surprises should the worst happen.

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  • Octothorpe
    Octothorpe Posts: 206 Forumite
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    I always thought marriage changed ownership to 50/50?

    Anyway, we are choosing an unequal percentage split as tenants in common for our mortgage. Nothing to do with deposit amounts, rather my earning power is a fraction of husbands so I would need most of the equity in the event of any split.

    Aware courts could disagree down the line but it still shows our original intention at this point in time (we are married). 
  • SDLT_Geek
    SDLT_Geek Posts: 2,837 Forumite
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    I always thought marriage changed ownership to 50/50?
    No, marriage does not do this legally.
  • getmore4less
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    My partner and I are looking to buy a home and our deposits are unequal, which we want reflected in the deeds of the house should anything go wrong.

    What then happens if we get married down the line? Does the house revert to 50/50 ownership automatically? And in the hopefully unlikely event of any future divorce what would happen with the house?

    We're both obviously looking to be together long term, hence the house purchase, but we're economically aware and want to make sure we're not in for any unwelcome surprises should the worst happen.
    What are you proposing  for this as many get it wrong even with the help of solicitors.

    deposits and mortgage shares need to be considered to get it right.
  • Rosa_Damascena
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  • TBagpuss
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    I always thought marriage changed ownership to 50/50?

    Anyway, we are choosing an unequal percentage split as tenants in common for our mortgage. Nothing to do with deposit amounts, rather my earning power is a fraction of husbands so I would need most of the equity in the event of any split.

    Aware courts could disagree down the line but it still shows our original intention at this point in time (we are married). 
    No, marriage doesn't change the ownership.

    What happens is that in then event of a divorce, the court has the power to look at all of the assets and to split them in the way that the Judge considers to be fair and reasonable in all the circumstances - the existence of a declaration or trust would be a relevant circumstance the Judge could consider, but it wouldn't bind the Judge. Equally, the starting point for dividing the assets is normally 50/50 but it is only a starting point; the court can, and often does,  make an unequal division as 50/50 is usually not fair unless all other factors (e.g. the spouses ages, incomes, earning capacities etc)  are also all equal.

    If you wished, you could agree to have a pre-nuptial agreement drawn up recording your intentions that the house should be split unequally if you were to separate - such an agreement is not enforceable but again, it would be part of the evidence which a court would take into account in deciding what was fair, in the event of a later divorce. 

    Generally speaking, the longer you are married, the less weight would be given to any pre-nup or any declaration of trust in the event of a divorce. Changes such as the birth of any child would also mean that less weight would be given to such an agreement, 
    All posts are my personal opinion, not formal advice Always get proper, professional advice (particularly about anything legal!)
  • My partner and I are looking to buy a home and our deposits are unequal, which we want reflected in the deeds of the house should anything go wrong.

    What then happens if we get married down the line? Does the house revert to 50/50 ownership automatically? And in the hopefully unlikely event of any future divorce what would happen with the house?

    We're both obviously looking to be together long term, hence the house purchase, but we're economically aware and want to make sure we're not in for any unwelcome surprises should the worst happen.
    What are you proposing  for this as many get it wrong even with the help of solicitors.

    deposits and mortgage shares need to be considered to get it right.
    Deposit is unequal 70-30 but all other costs 50-50.

    My partner wants to pay me back the 20% difference over a number of years to make us 50/50 in terms of deposit, which our solicitor has said he can facilitate through an additional contract. We would then change the deeds of trust to reflect 50/50 ownership once this is done.

    However that repayment may take many years so we just want to know where we stand should things go awry. Hopefully they won't though!
  • GDB2222
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