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Landlord - Untouchable.
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Leggitte said:There are several messages about your son being vulnerable. I read venerable: "other venerable adults"
I don't think there is any vulnerability?
Given the rest of the post's English, I think it's safe to assume it's confusion over the correct word.
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https://www.dictionary.com/browse/venerable
https://www.dictionary.com/browse/vulnerable
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I scrolled through quickly, still don't understand why your son is vulnerable but maybe I missed something.Your son must be in nice financial position (and also dense, sorry) for not noticing £300 disappearing from his account...Most likely it is a standing order as others have said.Write to LL one more time (also why not call, do you have his mobile or something)If nothing I guess you could go through small claimsLesson hopefully learned to open post more regularly and keep an eye on your bank accountGood luck0
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AdrianC said:Another vote here for it almost certainly being a standing order, not DD.
If it really IS DD, then he's laughing - he just tells his bank, they refund him.
If it's SO, then it's entirely his own fault.
Is there a reason he didn't have online or phone banking earlier?
Given his "vulnerability", do you have power of attorney over his affairs? If not, none of these people should even be talking to you, unless your son has given them his explicit written permission for them to deal with you on his behalf.AdrianC said:Another vote here for it almost certainly being a standing order, not DD.
If it really IS DD, then he's laughing - he just tells his bank, they refund him.
If it's SO, then it's entirely his own fault.
Is there a reason he didn't have online or phone banking earlier?
Given his "vulnerability", do you have power of attorney over his affairs? If not, none of these people should even be talking to you, unless your son has given them his explicit written permission for them to deal with you on his behalf.0 -
Turmeric said:AdrianC said:Another vote here for it almost certainly being a standing order, not DD.
If it really IS DD, then he's laughing - he just tells his bank, they refund him.
If it's SO, then it's entirely his own fault.
Is there a reason he didn't have online or phone banking earlier?
Given his "vulnerability", do you have power of attorney over his affairs? If not, none of these people should even be talking to you, unless your son has given them his explicit written permission for them to deal with you on his behalf.AdrianC said:Another vote here for it almost certainly being a standing order, not DD.
If it really IS DD, then he's laughing - he just tells his bank, they refund him.
If it's SO, then it's entirely his own fault.
Is there a reason he didn't have online or phone banking earlier?
Given his "vulnerability", do you have power of attorney over his affairs? If not, none of these people should even be talking to you, unless your son has given them his explicit written permission for them to deal with you on his behalf.0 -
Buy the title deed for the property will have the landlords name and addressDIP 09/02/21
Offer on property 17/02/21
Offer accepted 18/02/21
Mortgage application submitted 22/02/21
Desktop valuation 22/02/21
Mortgage offer received 22/02/21
Solicitor instructed 23/02/21
Draft contract received and enquiries sent 02/03/21
searches back 08/03/21
Enquiries back 10/06/21
Exchanged 23/06/210 -
Turmeric said:Turmeric said:AdrianC said:Another vote here for it almost certainly being a standing order, not DD.
If it really IS DD, then he's laughing - he just tells his bank, they refund him.
If it's SO, then it's entirely his own fault.
Is there a reason he didn't have online or phone banking earlier?
Given his "vulnerability", do you have power of attorney over his affairs? If not, none of these people should even be talking to you, unless your son has given them his explicit written permission for them to deal with you on his behalf.AdrianC said:Another vote here for it almost certainly being a standing order, not DD.
If it really IS DD, then he's laughing - he just tells his bank, they refund him.
If it's SO, then it's entirely his own fault.
Is there a reason he didn't have online or phone banking earlier?
Given his "vulnerability", do you have power of attorney over his affairs? If not, none of these people should even be talking to you, unless your son has given them his explicit written permission for them to deal with you on his behalf.
Several people in the thread have mentioned requesting it back through the DD guarantee. Has he tried that yet?2 -
user1977 said:Ditzy_Mitzy said:
There may not be anything the son can do here, as he has in essence gifted the landlord £2,100.0 -
My Son has just checked and he paid his rent by Standing Order.0
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Turmeric said:My Son has just checked and he paid his rent by Standing Order.Then why didn't he cancel it when he moved out?A standing order is an instruction from your son to pay the LL a fixed amount of money every month until it is cancelled. The landlord had no say in the matter of receiving the money, they couldn't have stopped the payments no matter what they did as they have no authority to do so.3
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Turmeric said:My Son has just checked and he paid his rent by Standing Order.
I realise he made a mistake but not checking his account regularly is one thing, not cancelling the standing order is another level. He needs to take his finances seriously.
He needs to get the landlord's details and start a small claims process. Don't wait for the landlord to return it, that hasn't worked so far.
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