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Landlord - Untouchable.
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I'm really not sure on this one. Basic sequence seems to be that the son rented a flat for £300 PCM. He ended the tenancy and left the flat, but carried on paying the landlord £300 PCM. There's a possibility the payments were made by standing order, which is the legal equivalent of sending a cheque or depositing cash in the recipient's bank account. There may not be anything the son can do here, as he has in essence gifted the landlord £2,100.0
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TBG01 said:And your son didn't just hit 'cancel' on the direct debit why?0
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Ditzy_Mitzy said:
There may not be anything the son can do here, as he has in essence gifted the landlord £2,100.0 -
Turmeric said:TBG01 said:And your son didn't just hit 'cancel' on the direct debit why?
Get your son to ring the bank and claim the money if he paid by Direct Debit.
Check it was DD, not standing order though.Life isn't about the number of breaths we take, but the moments that take our breath away. Like choking....0 -
And tell him to open his post more often in future.All shall be well, and all shall be well, and all manner of things shall be well.
Pedant alert - it's could have, not could of.6 -
Another vote here for it almost certainly being a standing order, not DD.
If it really IS DD, then he's laughing - he just tells his bank, they refund him.
If it's SO, then it's entirely his own fault.
Is there a reason he didn't have online or phone banking earlier?
Given his "vulnerability", do you have power of attorney over his affairs? If not, none of these people should even be talking to you, unless your son has given them his explicit written permission for them to deal with you on his behalf.3 -
There are several messages about your son being vulnerable. I read venerable: "other venerable adults"
I don't think there is any vulnerability?
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There was a previous thread where someone was referring to people as venerable where they meant vulnerable. I (and others) are presuming this poster means the same thing given that they've not clarified what they do mean.All shall be well, and all shall be well, and all manner of things shall be well.
Pedant alert - it's could have, not could of.1 -
I read, "venerable" too... If this is indeed the case, the son really should be capable of dealing with this situation himself.
P.S. Is that the tongue-in-cheek icon?0
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