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I believe the only way you can get around this in the short term is to move in with them. SS can't make you homeless so won't make you sell the house you are living in. That said, if it's your parents house then they may put a lien on it so that when you do decide to sell up and move they will get their money off you then.I’m a Forum Ambassador and I support the Forum Team on Debt Free Wannabe, Old Style Money Saving and Pensions boards. If you need any help on these boards, do let me know. Please note that Ambassadors are not moderators. Any posts you spot in breach of the Forum Rules should be reported via the report button, or by emailing forumteam@moneysavingexpert.com. All views are my own and not the official line of MoneySavingExpert.
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Brie said:I believe the only way you can get around this in the short term is to move in with them. SS can't make you homeless so won't make you sell the house you are living in.
No-one forces people to sell their home but, if that is the only way they can pay for residential care, then they would have to. A fit, under-60 year old would be expected to find other accommodation.
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Brie said:I believe the only way you can get around this in the short term is to move in with them. SS can't make you homeless so won't make you sell the house you are living in. That said, if it's your parents house then they may put a lien on it so that when you do decide to sell up and move they will get their money off you then.Googling on your question might have been both quicker and easier, if you're only after simple facts rather than opinions!5
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SJB77 said:My parents have two houses and want to leave there houses to me and not for the government to take off them to pay for a care home if they need that. Is there anyway around this? ThanksIt's always good to prepare for old age, I know a couple in their 60s that have given their Son power of attorney.You should speak to them and assess if they want to transfer ownership of one house over to you now, or if setting up power of attorney is what they want.It's unlikely that both houses would be needed for care in any eventuality, on average a person in care lives for less than 2 years.
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If it comes to it sell the 2 homes, get a good IFA and then you can inherit at the appropriate time.0
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SJB77 said:My parents have two houses and want to leave there houses to me and not for the government to take off them to pay for a care home if they need that. Is there anyway around this? Thanks1
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Lover_of_Lycra said:SJB77 said:My parents have two houses and want to leave there houses to me and not for the government to take off them to pay for a care home if they need that. Is there anyway around this? Thanks4
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I think this is a generational question too. My in-laws are in their 70's and talked about putting their house into mine & MrM's name. I did research and brought up all the problems it could cause. I suggested PoA to them and left it with them.
I can see why people view the Government as money grabbing through IHT.
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SJB77 said:My parents have two houses and want to leave there houses to me and not for the government to take off them to pay for a care home if they need that. Is there anyway around this? Thanks
Are you going to be happy for either of your parents to be living in a care home they did not choose nor like, possibly in seperate care homes should they both require care?
Would you be confortable with them having to 'make do' while you sit on 2 properties or would you prefer them to have comfort, choice and contentment in thier final years?
If you are happy to accept that for them then by all means try to find a way to do it. However, my dad ended up in care and his home was sold so he could have the best available to him as it was what he deserved. I and my siblings got next to nothing when he died but we wanted dad to be happy and all agreed we would rather he was able to pay for quality care and surroundings. It was far more important to us that he was comfortable than for us to be able to afford cars and holidays. So forgive me if I dont relish the thought of paying for your parents care through my taxes so that you dont have to contribute to the care they need.6 -
Naomim said:I can see why people view the Government as money grabbing through IHT.For married couples with a property, there has to be an estate valued around a million pounds before any IHT is paid.I don't think anyone inheriting that amount of money should resent paying some as tax.
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