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Website clothing purchase refusing refund only offering exchange - what to do next
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kazzyb123 said:She is still saying it’s my fault because I didn’t check the terms and conditions. I’ve put a letter in with the parcel asking for a refund under the 14 day cooling off period for online sales. I think I will have to go through the bank though. Why do people do this when it’s quite clear they are wrong? There wasn’t anything about return postage costs in the T&C s so I’ve asked her to refund that too, am I right about that?I’ve got copies of the emails and a copy of the letter do I need anything else? I’ve even taken photos of the items in case she says they were damaged2
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kazzyb123 said:Why do people do this when it’s quite clear they are wrong? There wasn’t anything about return postage costs in the T&C s so I’ve asked her to refund that too, am I right about that?I’ve got copies of the emails and a copy of the letter do I need anything else? I’ve even taken photos of the items in case she says they were damaged
Why does it happen? For small companies, anyone tomorrow could set themselves up a an online shop; there is no mandatory training, no licensing etc etc. Even if you've been going for a while there is no monthly mailshot of the laws that are changing etc. Most dont have a lawyer on retainer to advise them. You see the adverts for small businesses on TV with the person being the CEO and the receptionist etc because they're a one man band and so they have to know a little about everything.
The reality is you're spread very thin and you do miss things. Obviously some just dont agree with the law and so attempt to ignore it... certain fast fashion brands have return rates of over 50% (instore is supposedly around 8%) so you can see how that'd be painful for a small business! Having done customer service for mail order (pre the days of online shopping) customers try it on all the time too... I remember a woman trying to return a 3 year old pair of £10 shoe because they'd worn out and a long debate with her as she said her statutory right was for a full refund on anything that doesnt last 6 years if she can produce the receipt (I just wondered how many receipts she must have if the £10 shoes ones are being kept)1 -
Sandtree said:kazzyb123 said:Why do people do this when it’s quite clear they are wrong? There wasn’t anything about return postage costs in the T&C s so I’ve asked her to refund that too, am I right about that?I’ve got copies of the emails and a copy of the letter do I need anything else? I’ve even taken photos of the items in case she says they were damaged
Why does it happen? For small companies, anyone tomorrow could set themselves up a an online shop; there is no mandatory training, no licensing etc etc. Even if you've been going for a while there is no monthly mailshot of the laws that are changing etc. Most dont have a lawyer on retainer to advise them. You see the adverts for small businesses on TV with the person being the CEO and the receptionist etc because they're a one man band and so they have to know a little about everything.
The reality is you're spread very thin and you do miss things. Obviously some just dont agree with the law and so attempt to ignore it... certain fast fashion brands have return rates of over 50% (instore is supposedly around 8%) so you can see how that'd be painful for a small business! Having done customer service for mail order (pre the days of online shopping) customers try it on all the time too... I remember a woman trying to return a 3 year old pair of £10 shoe because they'd worn out and a long debate with her as she said her statutory right was for a full refund on anything that doesnt last 6 years if she can produce the receipt (I just wondered how many receipts she must have if the £10 shoes ones are being kept)0 -
14 days would be reasonable0
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kazzyb123 said:She is still saying it’s my fault because I didn’t check the terms and conditions. I’ve put a letter in with the parcel asking for a refund under the 14 day cooling off period for online sales. I think I will have to go through the bank though. Why do people do this when it’s quite clear they are wrong? There wasn’t anything about return postage costs in the T&C s so I’ve asked her to refund that too, am I right about that?I’ve got copies of the emails and a copy of the letter do I need anything else? I’ve even taken photos of the items in case she says they were damaged0
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Sandtree said:14 days would be reasonable
But what is the website? As it seems to have moved from London to Kent... I wonder if it is just a seller of Chinese fashion tat.Life in the slow lane0 -
born_again said:Proof of receipt will be required. Proof of posting is not good enough, for a chargeback.0
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Sandtree said:born_again said:Proof of receipt will be required. Proof of posting is not good enough, for a chargeback.
But remember these are over and above your legal rights. Based solely on card providers regulations.Life in the slow lane0 -
kazzyb123 said:She is still saying it’s my fault because I didn’t check the terms and conditions. I’ve put a letter in with the parcel asking for a refund under the 14 day cooling off period for online sales. I think I will have to go through the bank though. Why do people do this when it’s quite clear they are wrong?
Ultimately it went all the way to small claims court. The seller even enlisted a lawyer who sent me threatening letters saying I should drop the case as I'd be paying their £1,200 legal bill when I lost, even though you can't do that in the small claims track.
You need to stand up for your rights!0 -
born_again said:Sandtree said:born_again said:Proof of receipt will be required. Proof of posting is not good enough, for a chargeback.
But remember these are over and above your legal rights. Based solely on card providers regulations.0
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