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Gifted deposit to partner

I am in the process of buying a house with my partner. Due to our circumstances (him; cash rich, asset poor...me visa versa), I am going to gift him the deposit (25 % approx) and he will take out the mortgage on the house covering the rest (75%). 
He is in agreement (in fact is insistent) that we legalise this, in order that if something went wrong and we sell the house, it will be previously agreed who gets what (me: my deposit back, along with a 50% split of what’s left after mortgage paid). 
Anyone dine anything similar and any advice how I can protect myself just in case the worse happens. 
Thanks 
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  • user1977
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    Before you spend any more time on this, has he checked whether his mortgage lender is happy with the proposal? Normally they expect gifted deposits to be just that, a no-strings-attached gift - but coming from a partner implies that you'd be expecting in return to be allowed to live in the property?
  • Mickey666
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    As you are partners why not a joint purchase, in which case there is no issue with any 'gifts' between partners.
    Or does the OP already own a property and doesn't want to incur any second home SDLT?
  • Thrugelmir
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    Obvious question. Why are you unable to be party to the mortgage? 
  • 40ish
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    user1977 said:
    Before you spend any more time on this, has he checked whether his mortgage lender is happy with the proposal? Normally they expect gifted deposits to be just that, a no-strings-attached gift - but coming from a partner implies that you'd be expecting in return to be allowed to live in the property?
    Yes, it’s all agreed with mortgage provider. I’d be classed as a tennant. 
  • 40ish
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    Mickey666 said:
    As you are partners why not a joint purchase, in which case there is no issue with any 'gifts' between partners.
    Or does the OP already own a property and doesn't want to incur any second home SDLT?
    I’m going to rent my current home, but if I was on the mortgage, then because of this it would mean that we would incur the additional SD, which we wanted to avoid. 
  • 40ish
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    Slithery said:
    40ish said:
    He is in agreement (in fact is insistent) that we legalise this, in order that if something went wrong and we sell the house, it will be previously agreed who gets what (me: my deposit back, along with a 50% split of what’s left after mortgage paid).
    In that case it isn't a gift.

    Correct. It’s not. 
  • 40ish
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    Obvious question. Why are you unable to be party to the mortgage? 
    Just because it would mean additional stamp duty, as it would be my 2nd home (as I am going to rent out my current home when we move in).
  • getmore4less
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    That's a lousy deal for him

    He pays for 75% of the property only gets 50% back
  • Thrugelmir
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    40ish said:
    user1977 said:
    Before you spend any more time on this, has he checked whether his mortgage lender is happy with the proposal? Normally they expect gifted deposits to be just that, a no-strings-attached gift - but coming from a partner implies that you'd be expecting in return to be allowed to live in the property?
    Yes, it’s all agreed with mortgage provider. I’d be classed as a tennant. 
    Not if you wish to "legalise" the situation. You would need to sign away your rights as an occupier. 
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