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Gifted deposit to partner

40ish
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I am in the process of buying a house with my partner. Due to our circumstances (him; cash rich, asset poor...me visa versa), I am going to gift him the deposit (25 % approx) and he will take out the mortgage on the house covering the rest (75%).
He is in agreement (in fact is insistent) that we legalise this, in order that if something went wrong and we sell the house, it will be previously agreed who gets what (me: my deposit back, along with a 50% split of what’s left after mortgage paid).
Anyone dine anything similar and any advice how I can protect myself just in case the worse happens.
Thanks
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Before you spend any more time on this, has he checked whether his mortgage lender is happy with the proposal? Normally they expect gifted deposits to be just that, a no-strings-attached gift - but coming from a partner implies that you'd be expecting in return to be allowed to live in the property?3
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As you are partners why not a joint purchase, in which case there is no issue with any 'gifts' between partners.
Or does the OP already own a property and doesn't want to incur any second home SDLT?2 -
40ish said:He is in agreement (in fact is insistent) that we legalise this, in order that if something went wrong and we sell the house, it will be previously agreed who gets what (me: my deposit back, along with a 50% split of what’s left after mortgage paid).
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Obvious question. Why are you unable to be party to the mortgage?1
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user1977 said:Before you spend any more time on this, has he checked whether his mortgage lender is happy with the proposal? Normally they expect gifted deposits to be just that, a no-strings-attached gift - but coming from a partner implies that you'd be expecting in return to be allowed to live in the property?0
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Mickey666 said:As you are partners why not a joint purchase, in which case there is no issue with any 'gifts' between partners.
Or does the OP already own a property and doesn't want to incur any second home SDLT?0 -
Slithery said:40ish said:He is in agreement (in fact is insistent) that we legalise this, in order that if something went wrong and we sell the house, it will be previously agreed who gets what (me: my deposit back, along with a 50% split of what’s left after mortgage paid).0
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Thrugelmir said:Obvious question. Why are you unable to be party to the mortgage?0
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That's a lousy deal for him
He pays for 75% of the property only gets 50% back0 -
40ish said:user1977 said:Before you spend any more time on this, has he checked whether his mortgage lender is happy with the proposal? Normally they expect gifted deposits to be just that, a no-strings-attached gift - but coming from a partner implies that you'd be expecting in return to be allowed to live in the property?0
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