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People who are married / live with long term partner do you still have a seperate saving accounts ?

frank1978
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People who are married / live with long term partner do you still have a seperate saving accounts for yourself ?. (So you have atleast something saved as an emergency fund just encase it all goes sour etc )

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  • HampshireH
    HampshireH Posts: 4,955 Forumite
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    Yes.


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  • Pollycat
    Pollycat Posts: 35,811 Forumite
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    No.
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    Other than investments that can only be in an individual name.
  • JGB1955
    JGB1955 Posts: 3,866 Forumite
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    Definitely!  I've maintained a 'running away' fund throughout my 43 years (so far) of marriage - currently it has over £23K instantly accessible in it.  There's also more than enough for me to buy a house, split between various one and two year fixed interest accounts.  Our only 'joint' money is less than £2K in our 'house account' used for bill paying.
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  • Naomim
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    Ordinarily I would have said no. However I have a personal Monzo account that I only opened for my personal spending so I could keep it separate.  I then added loads of pots which although are future savings for joint things such as insurances, Christmas savings etc. I sort of view it as a fund I could use if I ever needed it.  Currently sitting at about £3k.
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  • bramptonbrew
    bramptonbrew Posts: 64 Forumite
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    Our finances are completely separate. We have never had a joint account! We have been together 19 years this year, it's worked fine so far, so no plans to change anything. We split bills and pay them ourselves (eg I pay water, elec and gas, he pays council tax).
  • JamoLew
    JamoLew Posts: 1,800 Forumite
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    Nope - never, don't forsee that we ever will

    Have had joint accounts/finances since we got married 30 years ago - no issues yet

  • esmy
    esmy Posts: 1,341 Forumite
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    Yes, all accounts are either in one name or the other. I don't consider it a running away fund. Nearly 40 years and never a cross word over money so it works for us. 
  • MovingForwards
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    Separate accounts. My OH doesn't care how much money is saved and where it's held. 
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  • 74jax
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    frank1978 said:
    People who are married / live with long term partner do you still have a seperate saving accounts for yourself ?. (So you have atleast something saved as an emergency fund just encase it all goes sour etc )

    We have separate savings accounts, current accounts, houses, everything really. Just 1 joint account for bills.

    I should add its not incase it goes sour as an emergency fund though, as we are married so would be halfed anyway roughly, but just no need to combine. (for us) 
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