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Is it dismissal offence?

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  • Undervalued
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    atothec said:
    Well I have disciplinary papers today and it doesn't look good for me, but I would like if someone wants to advise a bit with this please. Its a meeting with the manager and head of HR, and it states that COMMENTS OF THIS NATURE ARE DEEMED TO BE A GROSS MISCONDUCT OFFENCE AND IF PROVEN MAY RESULT IN YOUR SUMMARY DISMISSAL 
    That is just a standard wording which they would generally be advised to use.

    I know you are not in a union but do you have any legal advice cover included with either your car or home insurance? Quite often people do without even realising.

    You have a legal right to be accompanied at such a meeting by either an accredited trades union rep or another employee of your choice.

    Interestingly the trade union rep doesn't have to be acting on behalf of his union. If you happen to know anybody in whatever field that holds an accreditation you can take them with you to the meeting and the employer can't refuse. It is even possible to hire such a person via some of the larger employment law solicitor firms but it doesn't come cheap.
  • atothec
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    I don't have such people and haven't been to a solicitor about it at this time, but I might do after the outcome 
  • yksi
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    I'm not able to give any kind of official advice sorry. Just my opinion is that you need to explain that "refugee" is not a racist word and they seem to be treating it like it is. Whatever you do, don't get angry during the meeting. Good luck.
  • elsien
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    You need to get hold of a copy of your companies disciplinary procedure as a priority, if you don't already have it. 

    You also need to clarify whether the meeting with the manager and head of HR is an investigation or is a formal disciplinary hearing, as your rights differ with each. 

    All shall be well, and all shall be well, and all manner of things shall be well.

    Pedant alert - it's could have, not could of.
  • Anyanka1
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    edited 30 April 2021 at 4:25PM
    This whole thing sounds nuts to me:  Since when is "refugee" a derogatory term?  
  • Thrugelmir
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    edited 30 April 2021 at 9:25PM
    Anyanka1 said:
    This whole thing sounds nuts to me:  Since when is "refugee" a derogatory term?  
    How do you greet somebody in a professional capacity when you first meet them?  
  • I think you need to make a counter grievance for racism on three counts:


    1) They - including HR - are all bullying you as a foreigner who speaks English as a second language. They are penalizing your innocent attempts to use friendly and humorous English. This is humiliating, discriminating, rejecting, and degrading you, and showing zero tolerance for the struggles of speaking English as a second language.

    2) Therefore, you have reason to believe that your colleagues (including HR) are bullying you BECAUSE you are foreign.

    3) The judgement that the word "refugees" is an insult is severely racist, and shows that they think badly of refugees. This has caused you to feel shocked and hurt, and caused you to worry that there is a culture at your workplace of being intolerant of foreigners. 


    All of this is valid and they can't deny it. Even if you are a sensible human being who doesn't get hurt feelings at absolutely everything, please do word it like I have suggested. They'll soon drop the grievance against you. As a foreigner, in this situation, in terms of discrimination laws you hold the power here. 



  • atothec
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    I think you need to make a counter grievance for racism on three counts:


    1) They - including HR - are all bullying you as a foreigner who speaks English as a second language. They are penalizing your innocent attempts to use friendly and humorous English. This is humiliating, discriminating, rejecting, and degrading you, and showing zero tolerance for the struggles of speaking English as a second language.

    2) Therefore, you have reason to believe that your colleagues (including HR) are bullying you BECAUSE you are foreign.

    3) The judgement that the word "refugees" is an insult is severely racist, and shows that they think badly of refugees. This has caused you to feel shocked and hurt, and caused you to worry that there is a culture at your workplace of being intolerant of foreigners. 


    All of this is valid and they can't deny it. Even if you are a sensible human being who doesn't get hurt feelings at absolutely everything, please do word it like I have suggested. They'll soon drop the grievance against you. As a foreigner, in this situation, in terms of discrimination laws you hold the power here. 



    I have take note thank you for wording it in perfect way, much appreciated as can't seem to relax tonight 
  • atothec
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    I think you need to make a counter grievance for racism on three counts:


    1) They - including HR - are all bullying you as a foreigner who speaks English as a second language. They are penalizing your innocent attempts to use friendly and humorous English. This is humiliating, discriminating, rejecting, and degrading you, and showing zero tolerance for the struggles of speaking English as a second language.

    2) Therefore, you have reason to believe that your colleagues (including HR) are bullying you BECAUSE you are foreign.

    3) The judgement that the word "refugees" is an insult is severely racist, and shows that they think badly of refugees. This has caused you to feel shocked and hurt, and caused you to worry that there is a culture at your workplace of being intolerant of foreigners. 


    All of this is valid and they can't deny it. Even if you are a sensible human being who doesn't get hurt feelings at absolutely everything, please do word it like I have suggested. They'll soon drop the grievance against you. As a foreigner, in this situation, in terms of discrimination laws you hold the power here. 



    Do you think I should write this for the meeting or send it in before the meeting I got for 10th of May please? 
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