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A Paupers Pension Tale (Not many nuts to dig up)
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c'est_moi said:I don't know if this is the correct place for me or not
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c'est_moi said:I don't know if this is the correct place for me or not - I was just sharing my experiences of taking the jump from the diving board over three years before I could access my pension. I don't have a pension pot really as I understand it as it is public sector. The reason for me sharing it on here was to say that despite my reservations the last 6 months have taught me that it is possible to live on one salary after nearly 30 years of living on two - and losing the one which was by far the highest. I know that the key factors for me were paying off the mortgage early, saving like crazy whilst we could and most importantly having a supportive partner in a job they love.I know that by no standards am a 'pauper'. This thread just struck a chord with me because when I read other FIRE threads I am genuinely amazed at how much money some people will need in their retirement. What we currently live on, and even more so what we will have at age 55 and the 67 when state pension kicks in, is far more than many families have to live on. And we are just a couple with no rent or mortgage to pay.I suppose I shared my story on here for all of those who are, like I was, trapped in a job they hate and feeling like it they will be suffering for years. I cannot begin to tell you how good it felt to give in my notice. Once I sat down and did the maths and realised that we really could live on what we already had - it was like a huge weight lifted of my shoulders.
Your story parallels mine pretty accurately. My partner and I probably have a little more put aside/accrued than you and your story is inspiring. My partner will continue working, while I'm about to leap from the diving board I think - two years until I'm 55, but I reckon I'm just about ready to stick two fingers up at work.
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barnstar2077 said:michaels said:c'est_moi said:This is a great thread, and it struck so many chords with me.I posted a couple of years back about my own plans to leave work well before my retirement date and I had some lovely positive comments, and some not so positive. At the time I changed some details as I didn't want to make myself too easy to spot by people in work. But now I have finally gone and done it I can be more accurate with the details!This is my story. I left work after 29 and a half years last December. I was aged 51. I have a pension I can start to claim in three years time. This will give me about £1200 per month. In addition I will get my lump sum of c. 32K. My husband is still working, at he is bringing home £1400 a month. The plan was to live off our savings (c £150 000) for the three and a half years until my pension kicked in. As it happens we have been living quite easily off my husband's salary so far. Covid has of course helped to reduce costs - no commute costs have saved £150 on petrol per month! Plus we would have probably spent an extra 3 - 4 K on holidays abroad. We have still had/will have 4 UK holidays this year instead though.I have not yet paid in for a full state pension and will pay in to make up the extra years, but there is no rush to do that yet. I have half heartedly looked for a PT job but to be honest I am enjoying the stress free life I now have, though I would not rule it out. I do 'earn' about £25 per week on online surveys etc, and use this to pay for treats like funding my hobbies, but I have not even spent all of that so far. We are mortgage free - paid it off four years early to allow that savings pot to amass. My main worry is major work needing to be done to the house, and I can't pretend that does not give me anxious thoughts, but that is what the savings and lump sum are there for. We still run two pretty new cars and really could get rid of one of them if need be.I Have to say that I have not had one second of regret of walking away from work and I know how very lucky I am. I am now only 52 and my time is entirely my own - even though covid has put many of our plans on hold. My hobbies are cheap - geocahing, sea glass collecting, walking, sewing, reading, gardening. I love having unlimited time to do them. I love not having that constant nagging voice in my head reminding me that I need to be doing things from work. My job was making me ill and my work place was becoming increasingly toxic. In the end my well being was more important than money. I am lucky I have a very supportive husband and my job paid well enough to provide me with enough cash in the savings and a decent pension, even taking it early.I have found that I have needed far less money than I though I would in retirement. I know that big. unexpected bills will come our way, but I have also experienced the pure joy of being able to make last minute plans because the weather is great and because I have just been in the mood to go out there and enjoy life on my terms.
You only have a finite number of 'active' years to enjoy your retirement finances and it's more important to us to be using them enjoying all the things we can't fit in now around work, rather than continuing to work longer to generate a larger pot that we're unlikely to need / spend.
* of course, for everyone this is a best estimate based on what growth you hope to achieve and your spending requirements. Twice as much may turn out to be not enough, half the amount may turn out to be more than you ever needed. For us, better to run out of money (i.e. have to live off SP) than run out of time!9 -
My thoughts exactly! I'd rather run out of money than time. Even at 52 I feel the aches and pains I didn't 10 years ago. Right now I can still get out and do what I love - walking coastal paths, enjoying concerts and theatre (precovid of course), visiting NT properties. Since I left work I can do all of these things to my hearts content. I just love all of this time that I feel I gifted to myself. If one of my children phones and fancies a meet up I can just do it, no squeezing it in weeks in advance. I can make dental and hair appointments as soon as they have one available - no need to check the calendar first.Who knows what may come in the future. But if I do have mobility issues at least I can take comfort in all of the adeventures I am having right now.9
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I think th op may be one of those pension millionaires. Two 15k final salary pensions plus 110k pension pot will equate to not far off a millionIt's just my opinion and not advice.0
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SouthCoastBoy said:I think th op may be one of those pension millionaires. Two 15k final salary pensions plus 110k pension pot will equate to not far off a million
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What do you mean by 15k dc pensions? Is that the amount in the pot or projected values?It's just my opinion and not advice.0
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Amount in the pots at the moment, my wife's is obviously on going but no more contributions to mine.1
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Sorry I totally misinterpreted your original post my apologies. Hope you enjoy a long retirement. I wish I had the confidence to retire.It's just my opinion and not advice.4
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c'est_moi said:My thoughts exactly! I'd rather run out of money than time. Even at 52 I feel the aches and pains I didn't 10 years ago. Right now I can still get out and do what I love - walking coastal paths, enjoying concerts and theatre (precovid of course), visiting NT properties. Since I left work I can do all of these things to my hearts content. I just love all of this time that I feel I gifted to myself. If one of my children phones and fancies a meet up I can just do it, no squeezing it in weeks in advance. I can make dental and hair appointments as soon as they have one available - no need to check the calendar first.Who knows what may come in the future. But if I do have mobility issues at least I can take comfort in all of the adeventures I am having right now.SimpleLivingSomerset is my all time favourite retirement blog, well worth a browse.Money SPENDING Expert3
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