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  • edinburgher
    edinburgher Posts: 13,680 Forumite
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    @hugheskevi - sounds dreamy - we all need a good few adventures under our belts before we pop our clogs B)
  • gallygirl
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    @hugheskevi amazing trip! By coincidence I'll be in Tierra del Fuego next week as I'm going to Antarctica on a cruise from Ushuaia.

    Have you found it easy to get insurance for that long a trip?
    A positive attitude may not solve all your problems, but it will annoy enough people to make it worth the effort
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  • hugheskevi
    hugheskevi Posts: 4,436 Forumite
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    edited 12 February 2022 at 1:33PM
    ElmoR said:
    I did all my traveling while young, taking insane risks, now that I look back on it. It never occurred to me to think about repatriation of my body! The immortal belief of the young!
    Young is when it is the most fun! Everything is new and you learn so much. Then the more you travel and experience, the more of a veteran you become and know how to deal with the unexpected :)
    I did take a print out of the UK embassy details for every country though, and UK fivers for bribe cash. Inflation probably means you need a bit more now though? Or dollars?
    I've only ever dealt with a UK embassy once, and I have to say they were great. That was when we were hijacked in Ethiopia - I managed to hide my passport and valuables so I was fine, but the girl I was traveling with had all her things taken. That meant she couldn't get into Ethiopia, and there is no Australian embassy there so they partner with the Canadian embassy. Unfortunately it was a Bank Holiday and the Canadian embassy was uncontactable. The British embassy were contactable, but I wasn't in trouble so they couldn't help - but nonetheless said they would try to have a word with Ethiopian officials, and within 10 minutes we were both allowed into Ethiopia.
    I also visited the UK embassy in Addis Ababa which was quite an experience, with hundreds of Ethiopians there seeking UK visas in a huge office expanse. The Canadian embassy was completely different, the sort of big green leafy colonial building you would expect, with very few people around.
    I've never paid a single bribe. Partly on principle, but also I've just never been in many situations where it is necessary. The few experiences of police harassment have always been defused when I have insisted on going back to the police station to deal with the matter - officers in most African countries don't want to be dragging white tourists back to the police station and their superiors, so that has always been the end of things. Although I've had quite a few friends who have had different experiences, and spent time in police cells.
    UK pounds are far behind the major currencies for travel in more remote places now, as we have relegated ourselves to just being a minor currency. Dollar is king, and euro is always useful, and even preferable to the dollar in some places. I don't carry any pounds when travelling.
  • savingholmes
    savingholmes Posts: 28,878 Forumite
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    Thanks for sharing @hugheskevi very interesting. Sounds like you could write a book already...

    Achieve FIRE/Mortgage Neutrality in 2030
    1) MFW Nov 21 £202K now £175.8K Equity 32.38%
    2) £4K Net savings after CCs
    3) Mortgage neutral by 06/30 (AVC £18.8K + Lump Sums DB £4.6K + (25% of SIPP 1K) = 24.4/£127.5K target 19.14% updated 7/5
    4) FI Age 60 income target £16.5/30K 55.1%
    5) SIPP £4.3K updated 7/5
  • I paid a bribe in bloody Hungary of all places! I’d made a mistake on the interrail tickets and it did say that we’d have to pay fines which would have added up as we’re a party of 8. I paid the “special child rate” the guard suggested which was much less. It was late and I really couldn’t be doing with us being dragged to the ticket office and further hassle. It’s a few years later and I’m still sore about it - I felt targeted as we were a group of younger women 🤨 
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  • LadyGnome
    LadyGnome Posts: 801 Forumite
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    edited 14 February 2022 at 12:18AM
    I once had my passport locked in a drawer by a man in military uniform in Northern Laos until I paid some local fee. I thought about arguing the toss then realised I had precisely zero bargaining power.  It was only a few USD so it wasn't worth the fight.
    MortgageStart Nov 2012 £310,000
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  • Scrimps
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    I read through this thread a few weekends ago.  A little late to the party (a lot of people seem to have left) but would like to join in anyway as I have been looking for something like this for a while.  MY funds are far too paltry for the pension board crowd:

    Why am I investing? I dont like working, neither does my husband.  We have tried to change this by changing jobs, changing sectors, retraining, changing our perspectives.... but we still dont seem to like it.  I recently took a secondment for a much higher paid senior manager post -  which I thought would be more fulfilling and would of course give us more financial security and options, but I didnt last long before it became unbearable, that level of seniority just leads to things being so much more complex and difficult. I have the aptitude but not the resiliance for that.

    Some elements of work I do enjoy, I have noticed I get much more job satisfaction from the lower paid jobs I have tried previously, particularly the manual ones which also really helped straighten out my bad back from working over a desk for so many years. The ones where I put in a days really hard graft, get the job done and then go home and dont worry about it seemed to make me the most content at work,

    The only (pretty big) issue was: we didnt have enough money so I was having to work more (every weekday and weekend) to pay unexpected bills (vets) and we had quite a lot of debt. I would instead like to work towards retirement, maybe to barista fire, but this time to have saved for the financial security to enable it.

    We both also tend towards anxiety and low mood which really improves when we're not at work. 

    How much do I think I'll need? -
    In todays money, I think £24k  household income a year would have us comfortable. According to my spreadsheet, without childcare costs, mortgage or putting money into savings, we need £1350 per month now.  That doesnt account for annual costs such a car repair and replacement bills, holidays, or unexpected expenses but does cover our insurances, physio costs, dental, day to day spending + some additional like NT, spotify and disney+ type things. 

    How am I going to get there? - Im 40, my husband is 42. We would like to retire by 58 me/60 husband.
    Our NHS pensions wont kick in until we're 68, along with our state pension which we will both have full contributions for. I think the NHS pension is accruing just over 500 per year, though I need to check this on the next statement as we have both dropped our hours to 30 hours per week.
    Our mortgage should be paid off in 11 years, or 17 if we do decide to get the extension we keep changing our minds on.

    We both used to work in banking and have SIPPs which we transferred out from there circa £55k me/ £70k husband.  We continue to both put in £200 each per month (topped up to £250).  Though actually I opened a LISA just before I turned 40 as its seems a good deal to get another cash free lump sum when I turn 60 so my money goes in there.

    **LISAs are unpopular, I would like to hear if theyre a bad option in my situation. If I can get the potential 80Kish entirely tax free at 60, it seems like a good option, especially if  am still working part time at that point - also could I then also cycle it into my pension and get more top up if Im not fully retired?**

    How long do I have? 18 years....ish? to FI

    We have 3 and 4 year old boys and would like to set them up a bit, give them opportunities we didnt have hopefully without spoiling them.  We also live in a small home, the boys each have their own room but its just a very small 1930s kind of place and theyre only going to get bigger and smellier! We would like to extend/buy a bigger pad but that would add years to our working lives and make FI further away- these are currently unanswered questions. 

    As for retirement, it depends on what type of retirement we go for.  I would prefer to fully retire but feel happy knowing that once the mortgage is paid and investments where they need to be we could both work NHS band 2 jobs for 3 days a week and live a comfortable life without having to begin drawdown on investments.   

    If our investing does so well that we dont have to work, then great! but I would rather bring in a bit extra for a few more years rather than retire and not be able to afford to go out for a coffee or help our children out.

    Husband just wants to stop work as soon as possible, doesnt really think about working beyond 58/60 - even very part time, though understands this may need to happen, he isnt planning on it and will look more closely when the time gets nearer.  I think it is quite likely that I will continue to work 3 days a week at something I enjoy and adds to my life - or just doesnt take too much.

    We both work 30 hours over 4 days, we dont think its likely that we will increase that back to full time again, the only direction we are moving now is to work less and enjoy more free time.

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