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Buying on gumtree

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  • theonlywayisup
    theonlywayisup Posts: 16,032 Forumite
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    edited 7 January 2021 at 12:35PM
    jsmith9 said:
    You could ask them to pay by Paypal 'friends and family'
    Some people think this is the magical way to avoid the buyer have the ever powerful Paypal buyer protection.  It can be worse.  If the buyer initiates a chargeback for unauthorised payment, there is absolutely no seller protection. 
  • soolin
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    jsmith9 said:
    You could ask them to pay by Paypal 'friends and family'
    It is worth noting that a claim for fraudulent use of a card can be made by a scammer using friends and family, this is not well known and really only works if the buyer is intending to scam as it requires Making a fraudulent claim to bank which would endanger both the bank and paypal account of the scammer. This scenario has cropped up a few times recently, including once on here and such a claim, whilst being easily defended with a proof of posting for goods, cannot be defended at all if the  payment was F and F.

    I think it is a minor risk as it is a rarely mentioned problem and needs a serious scammer to contemplate doing it , but then a scammer is not going to be using f and F anyway and neither is any sensible buyer.


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  • soolin
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    jsmith9 said:
    You could ask them to pay by Paypal 'friends and family'
    Some people think this is the magical way to avoid the buyer have the ever powerful Paypal buyer protection.  It can be worse.  If the buyer initiates a chargeback for unauthorised payment, there is absolutely no seller protection. 
    sorry I cross posted with your response, which was rather more succinct than mine! 
    I’m a Forum Ambassador and I support the Forum Team on the eBay, Auctions, Car Boot & Jumble Sales, Boost Your Income, Praise, Vents & Warnings, Overseas Holidays & Travel Planning , UK Holidays, Days Out & Entertainments boards. If you need any help on these boards, do let me know.. Please note that Ambassadors are not moderators. Any posts you spot in breach of the Forum Rules should be reported via the report button, or by emailing forumteam@moneysavingexpert.com.All views are my own and not the official line of MoneySavingExpert.
  • jsmith9
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    of course it is - you are basically saying 'i want you to pay by cash otherwise I won't post it to you'
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