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Unmarried separation and property

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  • lynseys said:
    I'm so sorry to read this.  Are you by any chance engaged?  Has he taken any legal responsibility for the children?  You may not want to think about this right now, or it may not be an option, but does he actually want to split with up with you?
    No, we are not engaged and the only responsibility for the kids really is just what he gained by moving in. My children still see their dad. He does want to split up yes hes in a mental health crisis and wont see logic or reason. I have tried everything and I desperately want him back despite everything that's happened but he wont accept it 
    Oh, what a nightmare situation.  I can't give you any decent advice, but I wish you the best of luck in finding something that works for you and your children.  
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    If you decided to stay in the area you could possibly get some help with housing costs from Universal credit dependant on your earnings

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