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Resigned to fact we probably now wont be able to move this side of Christmas

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  • It appears, according to the secretary of housing that house purchases can still proceed. 


  • badger09
    badger09 Posts: 11,840 Forumite
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    uralmaid said:
    Tallmansix - my priorities are what they have always been - stay safe, follow the guidelines and protect the people I love during this awful situation. However, the fact is that we are 2 months into a move and were being told that our cash buyers wanted to complete asap which is why we had to start packing up as we have a lot of stuff to be moved.  I think it is perfectly reasonable to feel disappointed. Christmas makes no difference. Our family live 100 miles away and we had already resigned ourselves to the fact we probably wont be able to see them at Christmas. My 90 year old Mother in law is in a care home also 100 miles away and we were last able to see her in March due to the fact that the home she is in has been trying to keep its residents safe which we respect. These are the things which matter more than moving but we are now in limbo, surrounded by boxes and unsure when and if a sale and purchase will happen so obviously it has taken away our excitement about our future home.  
    I am 100% with you on this. My son lives in Hong Kong and I'm so happy we met up in Sydney to celebrate my 'big' birthday in February. Who knows when it will be safe to meet again? Stepson, wife & grandsons live 170 miles away and for various reasons, we haven't seen them at all this year. Its very hard. Add the uncertainty of a house sale & purchase into the mix, its no wonder we're struggling. I just keep reminding myself that it could be very much worse, as it is for many.
  • uralmaid
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    Final update.  On Monday my estate agent was emailing and calling the supposed buyers all day to find out their new solicitor details. No response then a terse email saying "I will let you have the details tomorrow"  Every day nothing. On Friday after discussions with our solicitor and estate agent they have done a lot of digging and found out that the buyers never paid for searches or made any further contact with their solicitor so he had not done any work on their purchase.  Definitely wont be moving before Christmas now and not sure when if ever. Property back on the market and back to a different anxiety - ie. worrying that no-one will want to view.  Oh the joys of being a "property magnate" lol
  • Caramac
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    I’m so sorry UralMaid.
  • uralmaid
    uralmaid Posts: 418 Forumite
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    Thank you Caramac.  
  • Oh what a shame. Why do people behave this way. At least you can unpack that tinsel now!
  • uralmaid
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    Thanks Tigerlily74.  Yes - I have located the Xmas boxes so that will be good. :)
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