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Some advice on child maintenance please?

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My son & wife are separating ( amicably, up to now) They have 3 children He works full time , she works 24 hrs. They have agreed to have the children 50/50. He is giving her 55% of the house sale equity plus he is loaning her enough for a house deposit which she has agreed to repay.  He has had conflicting advice about child maintenance. The CMS site says he has to pay a set amount. Other sites say he doesn’t have to pay anything as he will have the children 50% of the time. They will need help with childcare during school holidays from grandparents but this has always been the case. Is there any clarity?
:smileyhea A SMILE COSTS ABSOLUTELY NOTHING

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  • Comms69
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    He's only obliged to pay if she makes a claim. The system is catching up recently to joint care; but as it currently stands he would pay 9.5% of his gross salary.
  • ZaSa1418
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    He would be liable to pay if she is in receipt of the child benefit and she applies for maintenance. If she doesn't mention it then tell him to keep quiet. 
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  • Katykat
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    Comms69 said:
    He's only obliged to pay if she makes a claim. The system is catching up recently to joint care; but as it currently stands he would pay 9.5% of his gross salary.
    Is that per child?
    :smileyhea A SMILE COSTS ABSOLUTELY NOTHING
  • Aranyani
    Aranyani Posts: 817 Forumite
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    Is he planning to pay 50% of things like clothes, shoes, school supplies, swimming lessons, clubs etc?
  • Comms69
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    Katykat said:
    Comms69 said:
    He's only obliged to pay if she makes a claim. The system is catching up recently to joint care; but as it currently stands he would pay 9.5% of his gross salary.
    Is that per child?
    No that's total.
  • celblog88
    celblog88 Posts: 30 Forumite
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    edited 23 October 2020 at 12:47AM
    As far as I understand it if it's 50/50 custody neither party owes maintenance to the other. When you go onto Child Maintenance Service website it mentions how much is taken off assessed amount based on number of nights the children spend with the paying parent up to a maximum of 50%, however if it can be proven that day to day care and contributions are made by each respective parent maintenance can and should be stopped. I've heard stories where resident parent has refused to agree to 50/50 on basis that it'll leave them short. It's about what's best for the children after all.
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