We’d like to remind Forumites to please avoid political debate on the Forum.

This is to keep it a safe and useful space for MoneySaving discussions. Threads that are – or become – political in nature may be removed in line with the Forum’s rules. Thank you for your understanding.

📨 Have you signed up to the Forum's new Email Digest yet? Get a selection of trending threads sent straight to your inbox daily, weekly or monthly!
The Forum now has a brand new text editor, adding a bunch of handy features to use when creating posts. Read more in our how-to guide

Sister causing trouble

2»

Comments

  • ameliarate
    ameliarate Posts: 7,389 Forumite
    Part of the Furniture 1,000 Posts Name Dropper
    OMG the other sister is in on the act now, they have clearly been speaking to each other. She is coming to my house to see all the accounts. She says she wants photocopies but I have told her she cannot take the originals away. The first sister has outright called my brother a thief, with no basis whatsoever and implied I am hiding things. I have told her not to contact me ever unless she is ready to apologise to us both. 
    It’s not as if the estate is huge but what an effect a bit of money has on people.
    We don't stop playing because we grow old; We grow old because we stop playing.
  • OMG the other sister is in on the act now, they have clearly been speaking to each other. She is coming to my house to see all the accounts. She says she wants photocopies but I have told her she cannot take the originals away. The first sister has outright called my brother a thief, with no basis whatsoever and implied I am hiding things. I have told her not to contact me ever unless she is ready to apologise to us both. 
    It’s not as if the estate is huge but what an effect a bit of money has on people.
    Why are you even thinking of letting her in? She has no right to to have access to anything, and I would be telling her not to come because she is not going to get past your door.
  • ameliarate
    ameliarate Posts: 7,389 Forumite
    Part of the Furniture 1,000 Posts Name Dropper
    OMG the other sister is in on the act now, they have clearly been speaking to each other. She is coming to my house to see all the accounts. She says she wants photocopies but I have told her she cannot take the originals away. The first sister has outright called my brother a thief, with no basis whatsoever and implied I am hiding things. I have told her not to contact me ever unless she is ready to apologise to us both. 
    It’s not as if the estate is huge but what an effect a bit of money has on people.
    Why are you even thinking of letting her in? She has no right to to have access to anything, and I would be telling her not to come because she is not going to get past your door.
    It’s easier to let her and hopefully it will shut them up when they see there is nothing hidden. 
    We don't stop playing because we grow old; We grow old because we stop playing.
  • mobileron
    mobileron Posts: 1,218 Forumite
    Part of the Furniture 1,000 Posts
    let her take photos if u wish.
  • L9XSS
    L9XSS Posts: 438 Forumite
    Third Anniversary 100 Posts Mortgage-free Glee! Name Dropper
    Make sure you make it very clear to them both “How ashamed they should both be”
  • L9XSS said:
    Make sure you make it very clear to them both “How ashamed they should both be”
    I don’t think they feel shame just greed. 
    We don't stop playing because we grow old; We grow old because we stop playing.
Meet your Ambassadors

🚀 Getting Started

Hi new member!

Our Getting Started Guide will help you get the most out of the Forum

Categories

  • All Categories
  • 353.5K Banking & Borrowing
  • 254.2K Reduce Debt & Boost Income
  • 455K Spending & Discounts
  • 246.6K Work, Benefits & Business
  • 602.9K Mortgages, Homes & Bills
  • 178.1K Life & Family
  • 260.6K Travel & Transport
  • 1.5M Hobbies & Leisure
  • 16K Discuss & Feedback
  • 37.7K Read-Only Boards

Is this how you want to be seen?

We see you are using a default avatar. It takes only a few seconds to pick a picture.