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No support whilst on maternity

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  • born_again
    born_again Posts: 20,895 Forumite
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    >>a letter from my employer to prove I will be returning to work full time<<

    Which to be fair proves nothing. As in the current climate who is to say they will still be trading in December.
    Finance companies have to be very careful who/what they lend now. Thanks to the FCA and 
    unaffordable or irresponsible lending.
    Life in the slow lane
  • Jonesya
    Jonesya Posts: 1,823 Forumite
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    please help! Anyone with any advice. 
    Currently have a car on pcp have found another car we really wanted. Got approved for 10,000 finance HP. Once I told them (as obviously I wanted to be honest) that I was on maternity but going back full time in December my finance has now been declined.
    You mentioned found a car that 'we' wanted - if the finance companies are looking at your income alone then the maternity leave will have an impact, could the loan be taken out jointly or solely by your partner? 
  • MalMonroe
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    Just ask your partner to finance it, as Jonesya says.

    In the olden days when I had my babies, we didn't have a car at all. We managed, though. 

    There's no discrimination because you are a parent, it's because as others have said, you may change your mind and not return to work or if you do, you may return for fewer hours which means less money and money lenders are very cautious, as they have to be. With the best will in the world, your income can't be guaranteed.
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  • MinuteNoodles
    MinuteNoodles Posts: 1,176 Forumite
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    Apologies for the big rant but feel completely let down and punished for having a baby and now feel i have let my baby down
    Your baby doesn't even know what a car is, what money is, what finance is. As long as it's got food in it's belly, somewhere to sleep and is warm and dry that's all it gives a toss about for literally the first 18 months of it's life. And even then for the following few years you could run around in a £200 shed and the child wouldn't have a clue there was anything wrong with that. It's only once they got to school that things might change.
  • Sea_Shell
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    You say that you don't have the [full] balloon payment, but do you have "anything" you can buy another car with?    

    Like others have said, you'll probably have to make do with a "get you from A to B" car for a little while, until you are able to refinance your preferred car.   
    How's it going, AKA, Nutwatch? - 12 month spends to date = 2.60% of current retirement "pot" (as at end May 2025)
  • sheramber
    sheramber Posts: 22,964 Forumite
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    I guess she didn't get the answers she wanted.
  • It always worries me when someone is more worried about getting a new car then they are for the baby they are carrying
  • macman
    macman Posts: 53,129 Forumite
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    Bit she is worried about the baby. She's let it down! It was so looking forward to that shiny new model...
    No free lunch, and no free laptop ;)
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