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  • castle96
    castle96 Posts: 3,036 Forumite
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    No it's not you silly sanctimonious man.  Read listen understand
  • Grumpy_chap
    Grumpy_chap Posts: 19,479 Forumite
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    I have to be honest that I am confused why the £20k gift from the kind Dad to his self employed son was desired as cash.
    I do understand why the OP's builder wanted cash, but that is a totally different situation.
  • castle96
    castle96 Posts: 3,036 Forumite
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    The same rally. They both want cash, because.......?
  • Grumpy_chap
    Grumpy_chap Posts: 19,479 Forumite
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    But, in the gift from Dad, there is no tax implications.  Only, perhaps, PET.
  • castle96
    castle96 Posts: 3,036 Forumite
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    True......

  • wmb194
    wmb194 Posts: 5,601 Forumite
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    Particularly if it is greater than £16k, one reason for preferring a gift to be in cash rather than a bank transfer or cheque is if you are in receipt of a means tested benefit.
  • Grumpy_chap
    Grumpy_chap Posts: 19,479 Forumite
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    So, the gift in cash is simply for tax evasion or benefits fraud.  You should be ashamed.
  • castle96
    castle96 Posts: 3,036 Forumite
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    No. Neither
  • Grumpy_chap
    Grumpy_chap Posts: 19,479 Forumite
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    Then, I really don't see the benefit of £20k as cash.  It's hard to get hold of and equally hard to spend / deposit.  

    Unless you need to hide funds from spouse during divorce.  In that case, kind Dad could simply delay the gift.
  • castle96
    castle96 Posts: 3,036 Forumite
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    Easy to get hold of, easy to spend in his occupation (builder). No divorce/evasion/benefits. Why delay, the other two sons had theirs. There really is no problem/mystery here....
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