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Help finding executor after 20 years

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  • xylophone
    xylophone Posts: 45,607 Forumite
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    edited 22 July 2020 at 5:21PM
    You have already explained to the Administrators that you have lost contact with your fellow executor.

    Have they said how far they expect you to go in attempting to trace her?

    Were you your mother's sole beneficiary/sole residuary beneficiary after the payment of specific bequests?

    Have you checked with HMRC on any tax implications?

  • comeandgo
    comeandgo Posts: 5,930 Forumite
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    I take it you have tried phone book, faceache, just plain google?  Have you contacted any old folks homes in the area she was last known to have been?  Have you been round to her old house and spoken to the neighbours?  Would it be worth hiring an agency to find her?  We lost touch with a step sister and found her in an old folks home.
  • xylophone said:
    You have already explained to the Administrators that you have lost contact with your fellow executor.

    Have they said how far they expect you to go in attempting to trace her? Not yet, I am waiting for another letter as they wont give me info over the phone

    Were you your mother's sole beneficiary/sole residuary beneficiary after the payment of specific bequests? Yes 

    Have you checked with HMRC on any tax implications? No but there shouldn't be any tax implications as notified by the pension provider as this will be paying out within 2 years of the pension company having notification of death

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  • comeandgo said:
    I take it you have tried phone book, faceache, just plain google?  Have you contacted any old folks homes in the area she was last known to have been?  Have you been round to her old house and spoken to the neighbours?  Would it be worth hiring an agency to find her?  We lost touch with a step sister and found her in an old folks home.
    Yep, my next step once I hear from the pension company if this really s necessary is going round her old house. 
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  • Robin9
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    If it is substantial then perhaps a Private Investigator. 
    Never pay on an estimated bill. Always read and understand your bill
  • Robin9 said:
    If it is substantial then perhaps a Private Investigator. 
    I am certain it wouldn't be substantial enough for thousands of pounds of expenditure tbh
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