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How much do you spend in retirement ?

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  • ratechaser
    ratechaser Posts: 1,674 Forumite
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    What I love about this thread is the spectrum of chosen lifestyles that it's drawn out. 

    Whilst I will maintain that, relative to my professional peer group, I have a pretty modest existence, it is nonetheless one that many (most?) would consider wildly extravagant. And yet at the same time I get a small thrill from being MSE in some ways. I haggle ruthlessly on holidays, phone contracts, broadband, TV and the like. I exploit TopCashback, credit cards and other rewards wherever possible, and a few years back I even played the 'bank switching' game for a bit of fun. 

    Yes I've been fortunate in life through my career choices (working my a@se off at the same time, so not all luck!), and I think this attitude has helped me to be in a position where I will be able to retire, at a time that suits me, and in a way that I can have the lifestyle I want. Hopefully the same will be true for you all as well...

    All I have to do now is persuade Mrs RC that flat seats on planes are worth it. Not an easy one but chipping away.  B)

    Best wishes
    RC
  • Murphy_The_Cat
    Murphy_The_Cat Posts: 20,968 Forumite
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    What I love about this thread is the spectrum of chosen lifestyles that it's drawn out. 


    All I have to do now is persuade Mrs RC that flat seats on planes are worth it. Not an easy one but chipping away.  B)

    Best wishes
    RC
    It's a battle worth fighting, but potentially a very expensive one - once you've turned left on a plane, its something that you're likely to waant to do again !

    p.s. if you are going to do it, make it worthwhile.  A BC class seat to Hawaii can cost the same as a  BC seat to New York despite it being a much longet trip. As ever, cost and value etc.

  • ratechaser
    ratechaser Posts: 1,674 Forumite
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    edited 31 May 2020 at 7:58PM
    What I love about this thread is the spectrum of chosen lifestyles that it's drawn out. 


    All I have to do now is persuade Mrs RC that flat seats on planes are worth it. Not an easy one but chipping away.  B)

    Best wishes
    RC
    It's a battle worth fighting, but potentially a very expensive one - once you've turned left on a plane, its something that you're likely to waant to do again !

    p.s. if you are going to do it, make it worthwhile.  A BC class seat to Hawaii can cost the same as a  BC seat to New York despite it being a much longet trip. As ever, cost and value etc.

    Oh don't worry, Mrs RC and I have become extremely familiar with the pointy end of the plane over the years (there wasn't even a flat bed when I first started...). But it's much easier to enjoy/justify when work is paying for it! No stranger to either this or the black arts of airline miles, tier points and status. Sadly the current circumstances mean that I may be losing my BA silver for the first time in (almost) living memory, but... first world problems eh...

    On the subject of distance/value, there were some really 'interesting' tier point runs to Hawaii a couple of years back, almost enough to renew your gold card in one trip. But again, too convoluted for me to ever be able to sell to Mrs RC. One step at a time...
  • vulcanrtb
    vulcanrtb Posts: 116 Forumite
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    I've 'turned left' many times on flights with work. It's not something I will ever pay for out of my own pocket and in retirement I will never fly again. I'd prefer to drive across Europe (though not sure how simple that will be from next year.....)
    I would love for Mrs Vulcanrtb to experience 'turning left' (what a horrible phrase), but she would shriek at the cost!

  • Murphy_The_Cat
    Murphy_The_Cat Posts: 20,968 Forumite
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    vulcanrtb said:

    I would love for Mrs Vulcanrtb to experience 'turning left' (what a horrible phrase), but she would shriek at the cost!

    If you'd love her to do it, book it and don't tell her the cost.  Simples.
    Happy Wife
    Happy Life.

  • Nebulous2
    Nebulous2 Posts: 5,741 Forumite
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    There are lots of compromises to be made to get where you want to be in retirement. My one is time versus money. We are in the middle of a convoluted downsizing by buying a second home plan. We’ve had it for almost 2 years now, but haven’t been able to visit for 3 months due to Coronavirus. The doing it up to the standard we want to retire to plan hasn’t progressed in the way it should have either. It’s far too easy to go there for a weekend, open a couple of beers and walk the dogs, because it is quite liveable the way it is. 

    With 9 years to go to state pension age I could stop now with a pension of about £24k.  By selling our main home I could add £10k a year to that until state pension age and still have a cushion left. By hanging on a year I would add £4K to that, half from additional pension and half from drawing more from our capital. Waiting until state pension age would have me retire on more money than I’m currently earning. 

    Lifestyle plans don’t include many long haul flights. We get a lot of enjoyment from caravanning and cycling. Spending the summer here and most of the winter touring the continent in a caravan would be the plan. That doesn’t cost a huge amount. It does require a degree of fitness however and who knows how long that will last? I’ve holidayed a lot in France and spoken to a lot of people who tour in motor homes. It suddenly struck me last year. It’s very rare to meet anyone who has been doing that for more than 10 years. Lots of people who have been doing it for 6, 7, 8 years, but very few for more than 10. So it has a limited life, depending on health and confidence. Which makes the question all the more important; when do I pull the trigger? 
  • chiefie
    chiefie Posts: 406 Forumite
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    For those that love business class - remember in a plane crash it’s better to be at the back 😂
  • fred246
    fred246 Posts: 3,620 Forumite
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    The whole idea of business class is that you only do it because someone else is paying. It's not meant for retired people. It's nice but very poor value for money.
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