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  • Makingabobor2
    Makingabobor2 Posts: 4,208 Forumite
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    Pleased all went well. X
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  • Chrystal
    Chrystal Posts: 1,999 Forumite
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    Happy and immensely relieved that everything went smoothly. 
    Hopefully Ex will continue with the help he's getting, as he obviously needs it and it can only bode well for his relationship with your daughter and you, and any future relationship he may have.
    It's good to hear your daughter has settled so well and likes where you're living, and that you have also settled in by the sound of things.   :smiley: 
    Wishing you all the very best for your future.  XXX
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  • Humdinger1
    Humdinger1 Posts: 2,295 Forumite
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    @Kakiste I re-read your diary from soup to nuts over Easter.  I am so utterly impressed by your achievements and attitude.  Hope you and DD are settling in well; wishing you both every happiness.   The behaviour of soon-to-be (?) Exh is hilarious....considering how to intro new girlfriend to DD within 15 minutes.  You are quite right to put boundaries in place as what some might call cynical is to me a totally realistic assessment of his agenda.  Love Humdinger xx 
  • poppy811
    poppy811 Posts: 540 Forumite
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    Glad you are settled but please be on your guard.  Sounds like game playing by ex is still going strong.  You always come across as dignified and in control.

    just been reading another couple of threads and am horrified by the childish behaviour displayed by so called adults.  No filter at all.  You have dealt with this so well and deserve happiness
  • stymied
    stymied Posts: 655 Forumite
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    Hi @Kakiste I hope all is still going well & it’s just a delay in Internet fitting (or something positive like a holiday!) that’s keeping you from posting x
  • Humdinger1
    Humdinger1 Posts: 2,295 Forumite
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    Yes, so looking forward to your next update @Kakiste.  Love Humdinger xx 
  • So glad things are going so well.Thanks for the update xx
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  • What a lovely update, sounds like everything is going really well so far :) What was the new school run like this morning? 
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